for our ceremony which holds 60, i have invited all my family, about 40, because unfortunately in our family if you invite one you have to invite them all lol but there are about 20 of them that live as far away as spain so i dont think all of them will come but at least they had an invite-rather than causing an argument within the family, which has happened with other events. i am quite lucky as all my best friends are part of the wedding party and h2b has all his for his party, their partners are coming and again these are good friends. think what it boils down to is you invite who you want to come. xxx
