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    • Donnamc
      CommentAuthorDonnamc
      CommentTimeMay 19th 2017
     
    Help!!
    I've just found out my maid of honour is seriously ill!!
    I've no idea what do or even if she will be there,
    I'm supporting her as best as I possibly can
    our wedding is in just under 3 months
    do I tell her if she's too ill to make the wedding its ok. I'm so worried about her
    I know for a fact that no matter what she will do her best to be there but I really don't want her risking her health she's the sister I never had
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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665Got married 4 weeks ago
      CommentTimeMay 19th 2017
     
    Maybe don't mention anything quite yet unless she brings it up first and then tell her not to worry about it as her main focus should be on her health. If you mention it before she does it may come across as that's what your first worry is.

    If she is still sick closer to the time and she hasn't mentioned it before then gently bring it up and explain that you don't want her putting herself under any extra stress x

    When we met: August 2009
    When we announced engagement: December 2015
    When we will get married: September 2017
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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17Got married 12 days ago
      CommentTimeMay 19th 2017
     
    I agree with Nicole. Don't mention it to her just in case she starts to panic about it because you have mentioned it.

    I would just be there to support her at the moment. She needs you as a friend and not a bride which you are happy to do so be there for her as that xx

    Met in 2009
    He proposed Jan 2014
    Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
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    • Donnamc
      CommentAuthorDonnamc
      CommentTimeJun 21st 2017
     
    I've heard nothing from my best friend / maid of honor there's 7 weeks to the wedding now last time I spoke to her she was thinking about going for chemotherapy and no the radiotherapy it's frustrating because I can't get hold of her and without sounding horrible I've no idea what yo do... I've put her name on every thing she said that if she's in a chair with no hair she will be there we even joked about getting her a wig x
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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17Got married 12 days ago
      CommentTimeJun 21st 2017
     
    I would leave it for now and see how she goes. If you have joked about the wedding then she knows its coming up. All you can do is support and see how she is.

    Met in 2009
    He proposed Jan 2014
    Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665Got married 4 weeks ago
      CommentTimeJun 22nd 2017
     
    it sounds like she is still planning on being there so i would let it tick along as it is for now x

    When we met: August 2009
    When we announced engagement: December 2015
    When we will get married: September 2017
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    • Donnamc
      CommentAuthorDonnamc
      CommentTimeJun 25th 2017
     
    she finally contacted me after i send her a pic of the service book and said why am i not listed as doing a speech, luckily i can sort that so im assuming shes still coming :)
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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665Got married 4 weeks ago
      CommentTimeJun 26th 2017
     
    oh thats good :) glad to hear it Donna x

    When we met: August 2009
    When we announced engagement: December 2015
    When we will get married: September 2017
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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17Got married 12 days ago
      CommentTimeJun 27th 2017
     
    Yay! brilliant news!

    Met in 2009
    He proposed Jan 2014
    Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
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