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    • Mrs Hay!!!
      CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
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    has anyone got any ideas for vows for a civil ceremony, i just can't find any i like!!!

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    • pink*wink
      CommentAuthorpink*wink
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    why dont u write ur own? thats wot h2b and I are doing. just a few lines is all u need :)
    xx
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    • Donda
      CommentAuthorDonda
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    do a goo gle search for vows, there are loads of sites that will give tips on writing your own, or have a wide variety of vows you can use xx

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i`d say write you own ,,just remember they cant have any religious references

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    • Shazk
      CommentAuthorShazk
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    Id do a search there are lots and you could always combine several different ones or like suggested do your own.

    Id love to do our own but h2b doesnt want to he thinks it soppy (he not a man of words bless him lol) x

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    • MrsC
      CommentAuthorMrsC
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    Writing your own would be brilliant I think, makes everything that bit more special and personal. Just use ideas found in any you kind of like and make them unique to you.
    You can always phone the registrar for advice too.

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    • Mrs-Mouse-2-be
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    I saw a wedding on tv once where the h2b wrote the vows for both him and his bride and I have to say it was extremely funny lol. His vows were romantic and her vows were really silly like "I promise to always let you have control over the tv. I promise to never nag you when you are playing video games. Etc there was some really funny ones in it but I can't remember them exactly but all their guests, even the celebrant was in stitches. I would love to do that myself but we are getting married in a church and its not appropriate for a church but had I been getting married in a civil ceremony I would have done that lol.

    I think if you can't find any you like just do your own.
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    • lizzylou
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    I thought about writing our own but couldn't decide so are just going with the ones they give us! x

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    • AmyK
      CommentAuthorAmyK
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    If you still wanted to have something a bit more personal, you could have a poem read, or even just read out a few lines yourself about what your other half means to you, without the pressure of having to incorporate it into your vows x




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    • Linzi-jo
      CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
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    I agree with the other ladies, try writing your own and use some that are on search engines to help you to come up with them :) xxx

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    • Mrs Badger
      CommentAuthorMrs Badger
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    I agree try writing your own vows. We wrote ours. I thought it was going to be difficult but was pretty easy and made it really special, we kept them a secret from each other till the day too so was really nice to hear the husbands :)

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    • Tori
      CommentAuthorTori
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    That is lovely Mrs Badger. Think my H2B would have a hard enough job with a speech.

    Did your registry office not give you a pack, even if you don't like these they are a good starting point. What about incorporating the sand, candle, or rose ceremony into your vows x




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    • Mrs Hay!!!
      CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
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    Thanks all, we are going to attempt to write them ourselves, just want to be a little different x

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    • krazykitty
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    we are getting married at our local registry office and the ones they have given us are a bit bland too they ok some of the bits are ok but the others are not all that nice but i dont know if we are allowed to write our own :( it really hard isnt it! they gave us so many options for various bits of the ceremony! xx

    good luck hun x though i think if you can write your own it more special as they are coming straight from your heart and therefore mean more xx

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    • Natalie86
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    Yep I agree with the others about doing your own, I think vows that are unique to you make your day even more special xxx
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    • NickJ
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    Just write how you feel about him, copying of the internet is lazy. If you want to be lazy then just stick with the traditional vowels!
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    • Mrs Hay!!!
      CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
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    Have to say first attempt disaster, shall keep on trying!!!!

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    • MrsC
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    Would you like to share any of it? Maybe someone could help a little.

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    • MrsWright290912
      CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
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    We just used the ones that they supplied us with on the form - you just picked what you wanted

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    • suzky123
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    My vows:
    David,
    I am so lucky today to be marrying my best friend. From the moment we first met, I knew it would lead to something special. I cant believe how wonderful life truly is now you have come in to my world.
    You truly mean everything to me and today I pledge to you my deepest love, my fullest devotion and my tender care, because in you, I have found the one, my soul mate.
    I promise to be faithful to you, grow with you, make you smile, and to laugh with you at all of the silly random things we say or do together, that only make sense to us.
    I look forward to the amazing times we will share ahead, and although the future is uncertain, I promise to always stand by and support you, and to offer inspiration for all of your future dreams. No matter what we may encounter, we encounter it together. My heart will always be your shelter and my arms your home.
    I am standing here today in front of you, knowing I have everything I will ever need and I promise every day to ensure that you feel the same way. I am so proud to be your wife, and I look forward to sharing the rest of our lives together.

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    • suzky123
      CommentAuthorsuzky123
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    I would deffo reccomend writing them as we were told that all the exciting extras etc didnt compare to the personalisation of the vows and speeches.

    cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
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    • Linzi-jo
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    Awwww Suzky your vows are lovely!! xxx

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    • MrsC
      CommentAuthorMrsC
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    Suzky!! I struggled to read that without blinking tears so good luck to you saying them. Simply beautiful. Well done.

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    • Mrs Hay!!!
      CommentAuthorMrs Hay!!!
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    wow those are lovely, i just know i will cry and not be able to say a lot, am spending most of my time getting teary over stupidness and we still have 82 days to go....ahhhhhhh. I so have to get waterproof makeup!!!! Not ready to share anything yet once i am i will definitely post for your comments x

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    • AmyP7
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    Aww they are lovely, not even thought about vows yet x x

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    • Tori
      CommentAuthorTori
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    Your vows are beautiful Hun xx




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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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    Maybe use a search engine?x

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    • MrsLJDeaton
      CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
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    Diffinatley write your own wedding vows and get your H2B to do the same thats what Im doing i've already started mine and it will probably get bigger as i have another 3 years to go and a few months My H2B is like don't ask me to write them now he doesn't know where to begin and plus he is like we have ages to go ask me when the wedding is closer which is fair enough even thoe I was sulking after that talk Looool =D ♥ X

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