has any1 asked there bridesmaids to pay for there own dresses, or got any opions on this?
CommentAuthorkrisw86
i wasnt gonna ask my bm 2 pay but she offered to pay for hers to help save me money. it all depends on the situation hun x
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My mother in law is paying for her daughters and grandaughters and the others are paying 1/2
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CommentAuthorMrsOwen
my bms are paying for there own dresses, but we have bought there shoes, jewellery, bags and hair fascinators
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CommentAuthormillwalljayne
I have 5 bridesmaids at the minute and two invited themselves into the role, those two will definitely be paying for their own but I'm probably going to try and squeeze the other three into my budget somewhere! x
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my moh offered to pay for her dress, but i have the budget to buy them the dresses, so never took her up on her offer
CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
My bridesmaids offered to pay for their own x
CommentAuthormitch2509
mine are buying there shoes and bags etc
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
one of mine already conveniently has a dress in our colours so she will be wearing that and she really doesnt min that plus she knows she looks great in it and its comfy lol my cb has offered over and over again to pay for hers and actually the one who has hers had too but the other two i hvent heard owt out of them at all!! Not even asked how it all going!! I was hopin to find a high street dress n get the outfit under £50 and if morfe they would maybe hav to put more but i hate that idea although looking at it i might not even be able to afford that so yeah i might have to as themm and if they dont like it they can step down lol if they cant even be bothered to ask then yeah!! (rant over haha) but yeah i had thought about it x but they will provide own shoes either way as i want them to be comfy which if we only get them a week or so before they might not be!!
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CommentAuthorMrsSnedden2B
My sister is pay for hers my flower girls mum is paying for hers dont no about my moh :s x
CommentAuthorYourFirstDanceBride
I am making dresses and they have bought their shoes.
CommentAuthorshellay
mine offered to pay for their own, i didnt have to ask them, but would have asked as couldnt afford to pay for them, going to look at some tonight so excited :)x
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CommentAuthorSoonMrsHingley
We havent looked at dresses yet but it all depends on price. 2 of my bridesmaids are my sisters so it was easy to ask them to help out and they dont mind x
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Hay hunni first of all do you mind putting this in the right cat (bridesmaids) thank you. I f you dont know vhow on the first post by yourhearts is edit push that and it will take you back to the beginning so you can change it
As for asking them to pay 2 of mine are our daughters so i have to pay for them but the other 3 my sisters both offered to pay (their daughters) so bonus!
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CommentAuthorjanetx71
i was only having my 2 daughters due to cost etc but my sisters wanted to do it as well o they are paying for there own dresses we are paying for the head wear and giving them their necklaces etc as gifts
CommentAuthorKaya
1 of my bridesmaids offered to pay straight away, which is fab. But 1 of them hasn't stopped slagging off someone else who asked them if they'd pay!! lol
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CommentAuthorljeh92
i have 3 bms 2 cheif bms and a flowergirl (my daughter) then 4 ushers and a best man!.. we have a huge family lol.. so we have had to ask our bridesmaids to pay for there own dresses and shoes but 2 of my bms and 2 of the ushers are my younger brothers and sisters so we have said to my parents they pay for the bm dresses and we will pay for the ushers suits
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CommentAuthorx ashlil x
i have 6 bms and im paying for the dresses, bouquets, hair 2 be done and make up but they are paying for their shoes and stoles
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
they are all payin 4 their own, and shoes. am buyin acessories and payin 4 their hair doin ont he day!
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CommentAuthorTilley
my sister has offered to pay for hers and my mum has said she'll pay my little girls