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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
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    Hi all; Just a quick question.

    My wedding is hopefully in 22 months but when should I ask the people I want to be bridesmaids if they will be or not? My sister knows she is one without a doubt so it is just my other close friend who is like a sister to me but don't when or how to ask?

    Any suggestions :)

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    • VintageChic
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    If shes close enough shes like a sister I'd just bring it up the next time the subject of weddings arises...

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    • Whovianbride
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    I made the big mstake if asking girls last year to be bms but sunce then the friendships have changed alot mine is not for 2 years yesterday , but am planning on asking in a years time officialy but eill not be ones i asked originaly.

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    • MrsThomson2B
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    I am only having one of my sisters and my sil2b so they both already know they are bridesmaids xx
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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
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    I don't think my friendship will change with Heather, Lana or so I hope but since we may or may not have our wedding abroad - I think I might need to bite the bullet so to speak and ask her as she will definitely need to be there if I ask her ;)

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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
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    *When I ask her :)

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    • Linzi-jo
      CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
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    Ask her next time you see her hun, especially as you are planning on marrying abroad. I never officially asked my 2 best friends to be bridesmaids, they just knew they would be! lol xxx

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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
      CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
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    Ha ha :) I think she may have an idea anyway as I had to ask for her dress size yesterday :P Just not sure how to ask; whether to just bring it up with wedding talk or give her something asking her. A similar thing was in the DIY thread.

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