So after 5 years of planning and 2 kids we've finally managed to sort out a wedding date lol. So the wedding is July 2020, just over 2.5 years away. Me and my h2b have 10 best friends who we are asking to be bm/gm. When is too soon to ask them? Is it too soon now? Xx
So lucky to be marrying my soulmate on 18/07/20
CommentAuthorStaceyH989
Congratulations on setting your wedding date.
If you are 100% sure they are the people you want it is never too soon to ask, I asked my bridesmaids and MOH the same day I got engaged and we hadn't even set a date then.
CommentAuthorLaurenK103
I am getting married in February 2020 and know exactly who I will be having as my bridesmaids, but haven't asked them yet. I have sorted out the boxes etc to ask them with and was going to give them as Christmas presents this year but I have decided to hang off slightly longer.
I know what my younger sisters are like and also my MOH will get ahead of herself when there is still 2 years left to plan!
Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
Fiancé - 31st January 2015
Husband - 7th February 2020
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Congratulations on setting a date!
If you are 100% certain that they are who you want and they wool still be there for you in 2 years time then go for it now. I have over the past 5 years of being on this site seen a few brides who have regretted asking so early on if their wedding isn't for a few years then drifted apart or things simply change and then find it hard to sack a BM.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorPenguinJ
Yeah I get that. 2 of them have been good/best friends for almost 5 years. 3 of them are 3 of my best friends of over 2 years. I can't imagine doing it without any of them tbh x