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    • PenguinJ
      CommentAuthorPenguinJ
      Getting married in 4 months
      Posted: Nov 5th 2017
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    So after 5 years of planning and 2 kids we've finally managed to sort out a wedding date lol.
    So the wedding is July 2020, just over 2.5 years away.
    Me and my h2b have 10 best friends who we are asking to be bm/gm. When is too soon to ask them? Is it too soon now? Xx

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    • StaceyH989
      CommentAuthorStaceyH989
      Got married 33 months ago
      Posted: Nov 6th 2017
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    Congratulations on setting your wedding date.

    If you are 100% sure they are the people you want it is never too soon to ask, I asked my bridesmaids and MOH the same day I got engaged and we hadn't even set a date then.
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    • LaurenK103
      CommentAuthorLaurenK103
      Posted: Nov 6th 2017
     
    I am getting married in February 2020 and know exactly who I will be having as my bridesmaids, but haven't asked them yet. I have sorted out the boxes etc to ask them with and was going to give them as Christmas presents this year but I have decided to hang off slightly longer.

    I know what my younger sisters are like and also my MOH will get ahead of herself when there is still 2 years left to plan!

    Boyfriend - 7th February 2010
    Fiancé - 31st January 2015
    Husband - 7th February 2020
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Nov 6th 2017
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    Congratulations on setting a date!

    If you are 100% certain that they are who you want and they wool still be there for you in 2 years time then go for it now. I have over the past 5 years of being on this site seen a few brides who have regretted asking so early on if their wedding isn't for a few years then drifted apart or things simply change and then find it hard to sack a BM.

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    • PenguinJ
      CommentAuthorPenguinJ
      Getting married in 4 months
      Posted: Nov 7th 2017
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    Yeah I get that. 2 of them have been good/best friends for almost 5 years. 3 of them are 3 of my best friends of over 2 years.
    I can't imagine doing it without any of them tbh x

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