ok bit of a long 1, we are getting married next August we have told everyone no children during the day but at the evening they are more than welcome, now my partners mum and brother are kicking of as we are having our children there and my sister children as they are part of the wedding. it's now got to the point that we are being told that if his children don't come non of his family will. what would u guys do? my partner is saying he's not bothered but it's making me feel guilty.
If you've stated its immediate family only then it shouldnt be an issue. You cant have everyones children there or the numbers just keep rising. I had to ask a few close friends if they would mond their children not coming and they loved the thought of a child free day and night x
Hi if your sister's children are there then I would not like to leave the other children out :)
you cant have people tell you what to do, its your wedding not theirs.
I would stick to what you want especially as your H2B is happy with that x
That is awful behaviour! Stick to your guns - we aren't having any children and my best friend/bridesmaid is due to have her first baby this year and she is happy at the thought of a child free day and her baby will be very close to me. It's awful to think of people being so selfish especially family.