Finally plucked up the courage to tell my dad I don't want my step brother at my wedding. Went better than expected. I still feel a bit mean though. I don't want him there as I've found out he's into drugs and is taking them daily (and so is his girlfriend). I'm so anti drugs as I've seen it ruin another family members life and I just don't want it round my family and children. Have I done the right thing?
Yes deffo. I would 100% be the same. U dont want to risk drugs being at your wedding. U would be worring all day instead of enjoying yourself. Dont feel mean. I think your doing the right thing and i would do the same! Xx
I would be the same. It's drama you don't need on your special day xx
I didn't want drugs at my wedding and we told a couple certain guests this and then i find out they were doing cocaine at the hotel during our reception. I was fuming. Best not to have them there at all than worry about what they are doing. I hate drugs and i was so angry at these guests i wish i had never invited them!! That is all i think about when i look back and remember how angry i was its obviously your decision but i wish i had done the same as you are doing. Good luck x
I would be the same. I am assuming though you will reconsider if he can clean himself up?
A million percent, dont have a 2nd thought about it xxx
Absolutely. You can't go against your values here. Fact is,you wouldn't be happy knowing he was there under the influence or even taking them at your reception,and your venue wouldn't be thrilled with you if he got caught taking them. Have to say,nothing ruins an atmosphere more than having the police come do a raid halfway through or being kicked out because of drug use. Don't second guess yourself here lovey
yes you have you dont want that at your wedding all you would do all day is worry and you wouldnt want there to be a seen or police called and you dont want that around children good luck
Your dad maybe please he may have been worrying too don't worry xx
Yes completely. X
Defo ,can't be having that ruin your fab day,.100% would do the same ,.x
Completely! I wouldn't want anyone who does drugs at my wedding family or not it's your wedding you're entitled to who comes!
Your wedding is about you both and a wonderful time of your life . I'd do exactly the same as you. You don't need drama. I wish you both a brilliant wedding. . X
Hi I would do the same thing myself gppd luck :)
Absolutely yes x
Completely done the right thing and also hopefully made him think about his actions
I would be the same. You do t want to be worrying about that on your wedding day x
Yes you have done the right thing. It's your day, invite the people who make you feel loved not the ones you feel you ought to.
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