Working for the nhs things have been stressful and hard. My partner is also in the military. And with moving into our own place at the beginning of the year money is extremely tight at times. I work lots of hours and have managed to plan some of the wedding but it’s hard to find the last few bits and sit down and finalise things, due to work commitments. I plan on doing as much as I can for the wedding as it’s given me something to focus on and distract me from work.