UKbride Member Request 6 Jan 2019

Wedding party gifts

Wedding gifts! Who do you get them for?? and how far do you go?? Currently got: Mother of bride - flowers Mother of groom - flowers Maid of honour and bridesmaid - gift bag inc robe, wine for night before and photo frame Flower girls- activity box (inc colouring book, bubbles) and photo frame Best man- Iv left for groom to sort Groom - survival guide gift box Obv favours on tables for everyone Who am I missing?? And what else could I add??

Becky Mitchinson
Becky Mitchinson 7 Jan 2019

i personally think that's enough my h2b doesn't see the point of buying gifts but that's just him x i would get my dad one aswell as he is helping to pay xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

I did my parents and my husband parents but I think you got everyone on the list x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

I got my father a handkerchief that said we've had alot of walks but this one by far is my favourite love your princess and got my hubby father a hip flask and his step dad a hip flask. I got the bridesmaids earring and necklace for the day aswell xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

We’ve got presents for both sets of parents, groomsmen, bridesmaids and flowergirls. And I’ve got for the groom and he’ll get for me for in the morning x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

This is what I've got -
- Groom - cufflinks that say 'of all the walks that we've shared, this one is my favourite" on one of the links then the other had the date and time of our wedding.
My Grandad had the same. (Gave them as their Christmas presents as the wedding is only 3 weeks away.)
My Grandma and the groom's Mum are going to get some kind of jewellery.
Bridesmaids are getting Jewellery too and a robe for the morning of the wedding.
Flower girl is getting a teddy (she's 4). And the best man and father of the groom are having cufflinks.
All presents will be given before the day for them to wear. I've been to multiple weddings and find it an absolute ballache when people start giving presents during speeches, just gets long winded and guests get bored. (My opinion).

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

Think im going to get my bridesmaids, flowergirl and mothers a joma little bracelet, dads easy he’ll have whiskey, personalised hip flask and a little something for husband to be x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

Father of Bride
Father of Groom

Christina Branson
Christina Branson 7 Jan 2019

I always thought they were for the people who had helped you with the wedding and other things up to then and for the wedding party eg best man bridesmaids etc

Laura Shergold
Laura Shergold 7 Jan 2019

We’ve got the same as well as both dads and all ushers too. We also have flowers for guests who have offered a service (hair, cake etc.) x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

I dont think gifts are neccesary, wedding are expensive enough.
I might stretch to flowers form mothers and a bottle of something for the fathers (but given after or before the wedding not on the day)
Anything else is just more expense in an already expensive day.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 7 Jan 2019

We didn't make anything of gifts really. We did leave a little something on the ushers and bridesmaids chairs and a gift to MIL as she gave us a massive amount of help. But again it was left on her chair. Speeches were fairly informal. For all the kids present we left them a colouring book and small toy and large bubble wand.

Christine Gordon
Christine Gordon 7 Jan 2019

So far all we’re doing are;
Mother of the Bride
Mother of the Groom
Father of the Bride
Father of the Groom
There will be wedding favours (something hopefully that they can keep as a momento) for all the other guests.
You’re paying for enough, everyone is getting a free meal and a day-long drinking party 😂
I’ll only buy gifts for people who have helped in the wedding, wether it’s financially or physically. The gifts are going to be simple and nothing extravagant.

Caroline Larner
Caroline Larner 8 Jan 2019

Father of the Bride if applicable? And witnesses if different from the above wedding party members?

Tracey Law
Tracey Law 15 Jan 2019

Flowers are a great idea and local florist or Morrison’s are contracted with a florist where they do amazing bouquets for special events at great prices


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