Hi, I am getting married in 2 years, we'll having the ceremony then. Unfortunately due to mine and my partners job, we are having to officially get married at a registry office in a couple of months otherwise our job will place us at different ends of the country even though we own a house together. But we can't afford the reception atm so we are having it in a couple of years. My question is, do we tell people when we invite them that we are already married and we are doing more of a blessing/ renewing of vows on the day or just tell them at the reception?? We don't want people to be annoyed with us if we tell them we are already married even though we are being as relaxed about the registry office as possible and only having 2 witnesses there with us all in casual clothing. We want to put as little emphasis on it as possible.