Help please I’m trying to sort out my top table and unfortunately my mum is no longer with us and I’m worried about my dad been sat on his own I was thinking of seating me MOH next to him but then her boyfriend will be sat on a table not knowing anyone I know it’s selfish but to me my dad is more important please help I’m stuck! X
You don't need to stick to the traditional set up for the top table. Why not sit Dad next to you and MOH & partner next to him.
Hi could you put a female relative to sit with him :)
Put a relative next to him that he gets on well with man of woman 🙂
I had this problem so did away with the top table and had a sweetheart table, just me and the groom and had the family tables in front of us xx
Round tables, rather than the traditional long table, could help. Then MIL beside him. MOH partner with friends. Our Best Man's wife & my MOH's husband will be at a different table, that's just how it is
My mum will be on her own at wedding as my step father is in a nursing home
I'm doing round tables and mum's sitting with family I'm just having bridesmaids ( our daughters ) and grooms men sat with us x
we're having a sweetheart table for me h2b and family and stuff on round tables near us
Have a U or E shaped top table. Place MOH on the end and round the corner her part er
I’m sure the boyfriend would understand and it’s not for very long ️
Both parents are here but we do have our best man and MOH on the top table with their other halfs sat with people they don't know. We have a semi circle set up which means they will be sat close to them and I have say them with people of a similar age x
We will be having a round table as H2B also lost his mum last year also feel everyone will talk to each other and be more relaxed x
My MOH and the best man will be at the top table. Both of their OH will be sat on another table.
Your dad is defo more important. Having the MOH boyfriend on a table will let him get to know others besides. The meal is only for a couple of hours.
My H2B lost his mum, and my parents have divorced, but only one re-married.... we are having a top table, but it will be all men apart from my mum & I. Probably look weird, but they all get on (thankfully!) so i'm just gunna do that.
My best friend was in the same situation & she sat me (MOH) next to him bearing in mind your only sat down for meal & speeches her bf will get over it