I need advise. My maid of honour is starting to expect her opinion will change mine to the point she's glaring at me when I say "Well it's my wedding and we're not having that" She's started an open relationship with some who eats with his mouth open so now I'm getting anxious because I don't know how to say call it what you want but I call it friends with benefits hes not coming and ruining other people's day by having to listen to him eat
What advice do you need? To tell her she is no longer your bridesmaid or to issue the invitation minus her new friend when she may remove herself from the role?
I’m really confused what your asking. Are you asking how you approach the subject of his eating, how you tell her he’s not invited, how you tell her you don’t like her ‘open relationship’ or how to approach her about it being your wedding and you having what you want?
This is my favourite post on here ever!
Just tell her he's not coming - it IS your wedding. No one needs a noisy eater
Hahaha 😂 😂
Tell her that there is no plus one, if anything she is likely not to want to go! (Two birds one stone!!)
Look just give your invitations out minus the plus one for your maid of honour and explain that you cant accommodate him at your wedding as you had already starting paying for the reception and for your guests meals (price per head) and at the time he wasn't on the seen therefore wasn't included
Victoria Mellor can i uninvite Matt because he eats noisy too? 🤣
Think if shes like that, id probably tell her she isnt a maid of honour
Can you just invite him to the evening reception ? She will be too busy with her MOH duties in the day anyway. Maybe compromise? X
Debbie Hardie the struggles haha xxxx
Seriously?? Lol.. have you got a system for.vetting the eating habits of all your guests??
My "ex" MOH tried taking over everything to the point of she was calling it her wedding party and how I have to buy what she wanted to wear (which was boarderline hooker ) needless to say she last a month then was told where to go
Hayley Munro Bee Sutherland this is hilarious
You serious!! You are not inviting someone because they eat loudly?Wether you want to call him boyfriend or friend with benefits is either here nor there, the fact that your MOH would like him by her side on such a special occasion shows she sees it differently. Is it worth losing a friendship over?
This is a joke right? 😂
Sarah Porteous soz, you can’t come to the wedding ...you eat too loud 🤣🤣
Sorry love but you are having a bridezilla moment...
Natalie Wood x
I was in a similar situation I am unable to have kids at my wedding so I told my maid of honour and because her son can't come she pulled out of being my maid of honour oh well her loss not mine. If you don't want someone there just tell them it is your day and you don't want anything to spoil it x
Rachael McIlveen I'm demoting you from MOH cause you eat too loud 🤚
Is this even real though?
Ok, let’s be a little realistic here. Firstly, if she’s challenging you and kicking up a fuss when a MOH role is to support you, is she really right for the role? Is there someone who might fit what you expect better? It’s a privilege to be asked to be MOH, not a right.
Secondly, casual relationship and noisy eater or not, weddings are an expensive business. Why would you invite someone you barely know? People agonise over inviting family they haven’t seen for years because of the cost of it, why should someone you have known 5 minutes be there just because your MOH wants him there? Plus, there seems a good chance you’ll end up with pictures with a man that in years to come you’ll be wondering who he was and why he was there.
U can't not invite some coz th way thy eat
This has to be a joke surely? 😂😂😂
This is hilarious 😂 Tori Richardson! Do I need to vet Jays eating habits?
Haha just choked on my tea lol some of the questions on here..so I'm kind of confused is the sole reason you don't want to invite this dude because you don't like how he eats? Maybe I'm missing the point but seems like a bit of a silly thing to be fretting about imo.
I'd double check with all your guests to see if any others are noisy eaters?? Either don't invite them all or you could sit them all together at the back
I thought a wedding was about marrying the person you love? This is pathetic and childish. Grow up.