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UKbride Member Request 28 Nov 2017

Hey, I have two best friends and I am struggling to pick a maid of...

Hey, I have two best friends and I am struggling to pick a maid of honor. One I have been best friends with since nursery, the other since the start of high school. However, I love them both the same and don't want to offend either one! I'm really struggling to make a decision! Has anyone ever had two maids of honor before?

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UKbride Member 28 Nov 2017

You certainly can have that, or just call them both bridesmaids and have just those two but give them the honour of planning your hen night (if you're having one) together :) x

Nicole Harris
Nicole Harris 29 Nov 2017

I decided not to have a maid of honour as I love my bridesmaids all the same. I want everyone to work together to plan my hen night and as for everything else I just ask for their opinion when I need it x

Chloé Roe
Chloé R 29 Nov 2017

I don't see a problem with having 2. Its your day and if that's what you want go for it!

Emma Raisborough
Emma Raisborough 29 Nov 2017

I am having 2 MOH - my sister and my best friend. My best friend was particularly important as she is the reason I met my H2B in the first place - plus my sister is 9 years younger than me and is only 19. I am sharing their jobs, my friend is organising my hen do and my sister will be my witness for the signing of the register and is also doing thew other girls make up on the day

Steph V
Steph V 29 Nov 2017

Have 2, we’re having 2 bestmen. Your wedding your way :)

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 29 Nov 2017

Hi traditionally the MOH should be a married woman :)

Sarah Pollard
Sarah Pollard 30 Nov 2017

I had 2 matrons of honour , 3 maids of honour .... & 2 flower girls ....just go with what you want ....
It's your choice ....enjoy

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 30 Nov 2017

Ive got 2 maids of honour and another 3 bridesmaids, my h2b has 2 best men, do whatever you want its your day!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 30 Nov 2017

My best friend had 2 MOH me and her other best friend
Don't be hard on yourself and make a horrible decision when you can just have both! xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 30 Nov 2017

I'm very lucky to be having 2 MOH Defo couldn't decide between mine x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

Why not have a maid of honour and a cheif bridesmaid

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I didn’t have a chief bridesmaids or maid of honour but each bridesmaid had their unofficial jobs such as hen do organising, accompanying me to the toilet and grabbing tissues if I needed them!
Happy planning! X

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I have 5 bm, 5 best/closest friends. I just couldn't pick 1 moh so I've not done

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I am also having 2 MOH I couldn’t possibly even try and pick between both of mine! Having 2 is perfectly fine x

Rhiannon Robson
Rhiannon Robson 1 Dec 2017

I decided not to have one, couldn't choose so they are all equal xx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

Have them both
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Andrea Lawlor
Andrea Lawlor 1 Dec 2017

I couldn't decide between my sister and my best friend so I decided not to have one and they can share the duties equally! My OH had the same issue so is having 2 groomsmen as he couldn't pick for his best man!!

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I had 2 although 1 was a maid of honour the other was matron of honour... Only due to one being married... They had same responsibilities but different titles which I think made them feel different lol both of them were stars and having 2 made me feel more at ease aswell lol xx

Angie Norris
Angie Norris 1 Dec 2017

have both, i am x

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

just call the bridesmaids simples

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

Just have 2, it’s your day x

Teresa Burns
Teresa Burns 1 Dec 2017

You can as its your wedfing your dsy your choice

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

You can have 2 maid of honours

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I have 3, and I've nicknamed them 'The Committee' xxx

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I'm having 2, a maid and a maiden since one is married x

Leanne Budd
Leanne Budd 1 Dec 2017

I have 2 MOH 🙂

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

Do whatever you want to do! There is no rule book. It's your day - and hopefully you will never repeat it. Do what makes you happy.

UKbride Administrator
UKbride Administrator 1 Dec 2017

I had two maids of honour my best friend and my sister in law made it extra special

Debbie Dimond
Debbie Dimond 3 Dec 2017

My two friends are my maids of honour cudnt get married without them there don't care if I look like princess di lol xx

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