Hey, I have two best friends and I am struggling to pick a maid of honor. One I have been best friends with since nursery, the other since the start of high school. However, I love them both the same and don't want to offend either one! I'm really struggling to make a decision! Has anyone ever had two maids of honor before?
You certainly can have that, or just call them both bridesmaids and have just those two but give them the honour of planning your hen night (if you're having one) together :) x
I decided not to have a maid of honour as I love my bridesmaids all the same. I want everyone to work together to plan my hen night and as for everything else I just ask for their opinion when I need it x
I don't see a problem with having 2. Its your day and if that's what you want go for it!
I am having 2 MOH - my sister and my best friend. My best friend was particularly important as she is the reason I met my H2B in the first place - plus my sister is 9 years younger than me and is only 19. I am sharing their jobs, my friend is organising my hen do and my sister will be my witness for the signing of the register and is also doing thew other girls make up on the day
Have 2, we’re having 2 bestmen. Your wedding your way :)
Hi traditionally the MOH should be a married woman :)
I had 2 matrons of honour , 3 maids of honour .... & 2 flower girls ....just go with what you want ....
It's your choice ....enjoy
Ive got 2 maids of honour and another 3 bridesmaids, my h2b has 2 best men, do whatever you want its your day!
My best friend had 2 MOH me and her other best friend
Don't be hard on yourself and make a horrible decision when you can just have both! xx
I'm very lucky to be having 2 MOH Defo couldn't decide between mine x
Why not have a maid of honour and a cheif bridesmaid
I didn’t have a chief bridesmaids or maid of honour but each bridesmaid had their unofficial jobs such as hen do organising, accompanying me to the toilet and grabbing tissues if I needed them!
Happy planning! X
I have 5 bm, 5 best/closest friends. I just couldn't pick 1 moh so I've not done
I am also having 2 MOH I couldn’t possibly even try and pick between both of mine! Having 2 is perfectly fine x
I decided not to have one, couldn't choose so they are all equal xx
Have them both
I couldn't decide between my sister and my best friend so I decided not to have one and they can share the duties equally! My OH had the same issue so is having 2 groomsmen as he couldn't pick for his best man!!
I had 2 although 1 was a maid of honour the other was matron of honour... Only due to one being married... They had same responsibilities but different titles which I think made them feel different lol both of them were stars and having 2 made me feel more at ease aswell lol xx
have both, i am x
just call the bridesmaids simples
Just have 2, it’s your day x
You can as its your wedfing your dsy your choice
You can have 2 maid of honours
I have 3, and I've nicknamed them 'The Committee' xxx
I'm having 2, a maid and a maiden since one is married x
I have 2 MOH 🙂
Do whatever you want to do! There is no rule book. It's your day - and hopefully you will never repeat it. Do what makes you happy.
I had two maids of honour my best friend and my sister in law made it extra special
My two friends are my maids of honour cudnt get married without them there don't care if I look like princess di lol xx