My mother in law is being a nightmare already and we haven't been engaged that long I don't know how to approach her at all and my partner is not much help
Hi welcome to the club of awkward MIL'S :)
People can have there suggestions, does not mean you have todo what they say. It's your wedding
At the end of the day its your wedding, as long as it suits you and your partner thats what is important.
What you want to do is give her some jobs so she feels part of it. X
Put your foot down sooner rather than later!
His mother , his place to sort things
Lynsey Brown This is the website I was telling you about xx
How exactly is she being a nightmare
Can you possibly take her out for cocktails? Get her a bit fresh and try and involve her in some aspects your not as fussed about? X