UKbride Member Request 27 Sep 2017

My H2B's Uncle has been on and off drugs for aslong as he can remember. He...

My H2B's Uncle has been on and off drugs for aslong as he can remember. He was doing really well and hadn't touched any for over a year, however stuff has happened and he's back on drugs! I'm not just talking weed either (I could sort of deal with that), he is unpredictable and becoming very nasty. In the past if my H2B has needed him he has dropped everything to be there (on or off the drugs) and H2B wants him at the wedding. How do I tell him that I don't want him anywhere near our wedding day if he is still on the drugs without it turning into an argument? X

Lucy Mumberson
Lucy Mumberson 27 Sep 2017

Just tell him straight, yes he may get annoyed and you but just be honest, why don’t you also sit down with the uncle and say all this, it may give him motivation to get back on track, hope it goes well for you x

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 28 Sep 2017

Hi I agree with Lucy :)

Susan Coleclough
Susan Coleclough 28 Sep 2017

I agree with both the Lucys.

Alys Brierley
Alys Brierley 28 Sep 2017

That's not an unreasonable request just say it like that

E Wilson
E Wilson 28 Sep 2017

Tell him straight. We've had the same issue with my h2bs brother. We've spoken to the brother and the brother said he can't go a day with out weed. He has therefore said he won't bother coming. We are happy with this outcome


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