Katherine Ward
Katherine Ward 18 Sep 2017

I have a dilemma peeps......my maid of honour has decided he don't want to...

I have a dilemma peeps......my maid of honour has decided he don't want to do it any more when he is my all time bestfriend. I'm really hurt over this do i get another maid of honour even though it won't be the same or not bother the h2b says just chose another but I feel to hurt. Thanks for all replies x

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Chelsey French
Chelsey French 18 Sep 2017

Has he given you a reason why? I would focus more on why he has made this decision then to be really hurt by it because if he is your all time best friend and has dropped out of this- it's either for a very good reason or he just doesn't want to do it in which case he is a crappy friend! xxx

Nicola Jones
Nicola Jones 18 Sep 2017

Can you ot involve him in any other way? A witness perhaps? Our best friend who got us together refused point blank to be a best man so he is now driving me to the church - a non-speaking part which he is very happy with. Give it some time to heal, and re-group your thoughts and see how you feel.

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 18 Sep 2017

Hi perhaps he has a very good reason maybe he has has an attack of nerves :)

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