Wedding Forum - H2b's stag do...

It's a surprise for him but his best man has told me they are going to Amsterdam, I'm really not that fussed where he goes they leave Friday morning and back Sunday night.

One of my friends has told me I must be nuts to allow him to go there for the weekend.

It's a place he has always wanted to go to but she has filled me now with dread, so please tell me do you think I have anything to 'worry' about.

He's been away on holidays without me before for a week and this friend told me at the time I was crazy I trust my oh 150% I wouldn't be marrying him if I didnt but for some reason she has got to me with her comments :-(

What I mean is, I guess it depends what they're planning for him while there x

I don't think there's much to worry about then, tbh the few times we've been, we've gone for a look lol and some are stunning, makes you wonder why they're doing it as they look like models... The other thing is the bar called teasers there,it's a little like hooters but the girls let you have tequila off any part of their body ... Maybe you should perhaps mention that one too lol x

My OH went there on his; he's also been on lad's holidays to Prague, and will be going to Sofia, Bulgaria, next June for a friend's stag do.

It really did not bother me; all they did was drink and do drugs, and go to like one strip club and a peep show thing. That said, I'm pretty laid back so there wasn't much that was 'off limits'. The only thing that bothered me was the cost; it cost something like £800/900 for just 3 nights and 4 days and that REALLY annoyed me, as that would nearly get us a week all inclusive somewhere like Mexico or Cuba. That was my only issue; I felt it very extravagant for a weekend away.

you have 150% trust in your man and thats all that matters, your friend shouldn't of put any of that in your head thats a very unfair and i know whats it like when a seed gets planted and you let it grow and think oh no, but if you trust him then you will have nothing to worry about- just think of how much you can laugh at him when he comes back needing his bed for a week to recover lol
xx

Don't listen to your friend! If you trust him then that's all you need to know.. You don't need to know all the details about what happens or what could happen while he's there. I think it's awful of your friend to plant that seed of doubt in your mind!

Ignore her! If you trust him enough to marry him then you should continue to trust him on his stag do.

I think she probably just wants to rattle you x