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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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    Well some of u may have read that our groomsmen are p@@
    H2b had his stag last weekend and h2b in the end had to plan, book and pay himself for: meal out and comedy club for 20 men... LOT OF MOOLAH! So, during the day they all met and only ended up having a drink in town and then the meal, comedy club and a bit of a lads night out after... He said to me "I thought the lads were gonna surprise me with something, I don't think they care about me" coming from a scouse lad it's really sad... My cousin on the night turned to them and was like "right lads were we goin?" They ummed and ahhed and eventually go the walkabout (which is usually full if kids!) so h2b is like ok il meet you there I'll go and find so and so... They all walked off and left him and again my cousin said 'what are you doing? He shouldn't be looking an waiting for people on HIS stag!' So they pretty much run after h2b and send him on to the club instead... It's like they've got no nouse and need to be prompted to actually act like almost 30 something year old men! Not once have they offered any help and it all kicked off on fb (I HATE it) on sat morn with one of the lads gf's like "oh well **** better be able to drive, we're going away tomorrow' I said to her to be fair they are on stag so should we expect any less than drunken escapades?! Then she went off on one at my mum when mum suggested why doesn't she drive and it went a little too far and I basically said everyone had crossed a line with me and how annoyed I was with everyone and how no one seems to actually care about my h2b and it being his stag day etc... She's like well '**** rang around a couple of places!' BIG F****ING WOO! I've a feeling she won't turn up to the wedding either and if she doesn't I will NEVER speak to her again and I won't exactly be best buds with him anymore. I've tried so so hard to friends with this girl, invited the over for tea, days out, nights out and the pub and nothing from her, convo is jar cz it's one word answers (seems so marvellous on a keyboard though! And she deffo wouldn't say it to my face!) if she doesn't come to our day that will be the 3rd wedding of his 'best' friends in the last year...

    One groomsman texted chris to say he's taken the off before the wedding to help us... So only one does care! Fuming

    Xxx

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    • StephHsoon2bBodkin
      CommentAuthorStephHsoon2bBodkin
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    That is awful hun.... I really feel for you & your OH!!! Don't worry about trying to be friends with people or please them... Your OH's stag do should be fun. Has he said anything about the night to either of his friends to tell them how he feels.. Sometimes telling it how it is, is the best way to go about things... Maybe they thought they wanted to keep it low key... As for the girl. Ignore her..... Noone is worth that much effort you are putting in.. trust me on that one...

    I've learnt that saying how it is may not win me friends but its better to have a small group of friends than a large group who don't care.

    Don't stress as people are not worth it xx

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
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    -hugs- hun. ive come to learn that weddings are nowt but a nightmare. if its not worth it on the day im leaving the country and never coming back

    /dramatic

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    • princesspixie
      CommentAuthorprincesspixie
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    aw hun sounds like a nightmare i wouldn't worry about her i can't stand most of my OH's friends girlfriends just slap a smile on my face when i see them and be polite (they're all younger than me and too self obsessed to notice anyway) xx

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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    That is awful! They are supposed to know him really well and help with the planning of the stag do as well as trying to alleviate some of the stress, not cause more!

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    • clair
      CommentAuthorclair
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    That's rubbish! It's a stag do, u would think one of then will have the common sence to do something special for him.
    It's just not fair! My OH is worried about his best man and groomsmen bieing useless. He is going to have his dad organise it then something may get done! X

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    • LauraF89
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    Sounds like they all expected to be entertained, surely one of them would have had the common sense to arrange something for a stag do, or at least you'd think! It shouldnt be up to the groom to have to do it!
    Sorry to hear it's all kicked off!

    Throw him a stag do of his own, just you two, you can be the stripper ;) lol!!

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