Wedding Forum - Ordered my flowers but need advice pls :)...

Got myself into a flap in the shop over the buttonholes, my bouquet is dark red, my bridesmaid whom is wearing a burgundy dress has got a ivory posy, the buttonholes well i thought groom should wear ivory to match me (even tho im a soft gold he refuses to wear that) so thats what i ordered him, tho woman was saying shouldnt he be wearing red to match my bouquet?? the usher and him both have ivory roses but to make groom stand out shes adding a few burgundy berrys to it...but now im home im fretting again, is groom surpose to match my flowers or my dress? xx

Thanks Suzi, she really did throw me..so yeah im happy with what i got so im being silly. xx

OK so tradition states that normally the groom wears the same colour but in this day and age tradition goes out the window! Plus your OH doesn't wanna wear certain colours and he needs to be comfortable with it as well.. stick to what you have, it sounds lovely :o) x x

Iv got the diamante pins in the centre of my roses but dp refused to have the pin in his...so yeah didnt help with my bridezilla moment in the shop lol. xx

Arghh so now maybe i should change his flower, i wanted it the tradtional way. Thanks ladies. xx

lol i give up, h2b said he prefs to wear ivory to red so wants to keep it as it is... so stress over il leave it how it was. xx

I havent even thought about buttonholes yet. I'm going to be having ivory and burgandy flowers in my bouquet. xx

As long as he is happy that's what matters - after all he will be wearing it! Don't worry no one else will notice! x

I think that as long as the groom stands out from other men it doesn't really matter! xx