Oh hun *hug*. Have you got any chocolate in the house?!! Would talking about something mundane help or want to let some more off your chest? I'm wide awake so will be around for some company x
CommentAuthorangeleyes
oh Lemondrops thats terrible. thats really not good enough about your doctors, i would just march up there and have a right go at them. But i suppose that would just make you feel worse. You should talk to your parents, you say you dont want to worry them, but they will be there for you and help you out when you need it. :( love and hugs for you xxx
CommentAuthorSuzi
Oh sweetheart I wish I could give you a BIG HUG and tell you everything is going to be OK instead all I can do is give you a BIG virtual HUG and tell you what will be will be!
It must be hard not knowing what is going on and waiting so long in between appointments! Is it possible you can move back home? and what about H2B can he help you out a little more? I thought you had found a flat or has that fallen through? (sorry not been about much these last few days)
I really feel for you and hate the thought of you being so miserable at a time when you should be having so much fun!
Please know im thinking of you hun and if I can help in anyway please be sure to let me know x x x x
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CommentAuthorDrunchPunk
Oh Lemon :( Firstly you know you can always offload here. Secondly, it seems to me that Si will always look after you. Thirdly, I know you don't want to burden your parents, but they're your parents, they WANT to be burdened with this sort of thing!
You've had a dreadful time of it recently. You should tell the people who love you what the problems are, so they can help where they can.
Aww lemondrops thats shit babe i no what u mean about the doctors i have been ill for 2 years and they still dont no what its is but i would talk 2 ur parents and see if they can help i talked 2 my mum and she phoned my doctors and said they better run test they did may help hope u get better soon chic xxxx
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CommentAuthorKat
Is there something the uni can do? As for the parents they might just being offhand so they don't transfer their worrying to you. Sounds like you need someone fighting your corner with the doctors though
CommentAuthorSuz80
Hun I really feel for you as i'm going through something similar only its my ovaries, this has been going on for about 3 years now, the pain just got sooo bad that i finally snapped and went to my doctors and had a go at her (may have threatened her with legal action... ) This was in January, She go me referred to a specialist in hospital and i had an appointement in Feb, unfortunately wasn't in the country so had to re schedule, had a scan on friday and tomorrow i'm having the big ones, laparoscopy and hysteroscopy, so hopefully, finally they will be able to see exactly whats going on and "fix me" lol. What i'm trying to say is you have to be tough with them aswell, you have to be tough with them aswell, no one knows your body as well as you so go to your doctor and tell her that you cant wait so long. I hope it all goes well for you, hang in there ok. xxx
CommentAuthorSuzi
Have a little look on your wall hun... as I said, nothing special :o) x x x
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
dont know what else to say hun .....(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))
aww hunni,i hope your feeling a little better today,,,give your doctor a swift kick up his rear x~x~x
CommentAuthorKat
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Hope you're feeling a bit better this morning
CommentAuthorohfiddles
yeah me too, hope your feeling better xxx
CommentAuthorLou lou
oh hun can u not go to ur gp and tell him to hurry the appointments through? u have a right to adeqate medical treatment. i hope u feel better soon xx
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
ahhh hun!!! head back down to ur doctors and tell them all this. not being able to cope with it is something that they SHOULD help you out with. dont leave there until they give you something that you are happy with! with regards to your contract im obv not sure about but some contracts do have a clause under medical terms - worth a lil look into? if you want to move back with ur parents just be straight with them and tell them. if thats what want then theres no point skirting around the issue as i kno my parents wudnt know wot was wrong with me unless i told them straight out!!! i really hope your okay hun and please come on ere and rant as much as u like! xx
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CommentAuthorKaz133
Laura,Id change your doctor.This really needs to be sorted asap.Thinking of you,and hoping someone will pull their finger out and help soon. I think going back to your parents would be a good idea,that way there is always someone nearby.XXHUGSXX
CommentAuthorJoolsy
Aw Lemondrops thats awful!! Hope you are feeling a bit better today.....................sending lots of hugs your way!!! xx
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CommentAuthorKaz
Have just read all this. You poor thing Lemondrops - how dreadful. How long have you been struggling on in this much pain? Have you told your parents about the cyst? Surely if they know what you've told us lot they'd be rushing to get you home to look after you. You MUST tell them.
CommentAuthorloolabelle
hun i'm sorry to hear your so down, if your not having much luck with the doctor you must get this sorted so check out Walk in Centres or even A&E! keep a record of the illness/ how your feelin and lack of communication and help from the doctor. i wish we had pushed things when things were wrong with my Aunt, (she is till with us but an amputee when all she had was a small lesion on her toe) Get things checked out and hound them, your health is the most important thing!
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CommentAuthorKaz
But Lemondrops - if you are this ill it makes no sense to wait for Monday. Monday is a whole week away. The surgery is bound to see you sooner. Didn't H2B think about taking you to A&E?
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CommentAuthorsbride
Sending you a big lemoney hug hun (((((())))) Hope u feel better soon xxx
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CommentAuthorCupCake
I think you have every right to present yourself at the nearest A & E next time you feel so ill. I personally wouldn't stand for the shoddy treatment your GP has given you, and would be asking him/ her what they think they are playing at!! I would also be making a daily diary of your symptoms to take for your next appointment. If you are running a fever that is a sign that your body is fighting some kind of infection, (it can also make you have freaky dreams etc ) so you might need antibiotics? I have found making a complete pest of yourself at the GP's always works, because if you are prepared to stay away when you feel so poorly they won't see how this whole situation is making you feel .... if need be break down in the surgery and refuse to move until they do something!!! Tough tits if it's a busy surgery, they get paid 120 grand a year to do that job, they should flippin well earn it! Hope you are feeling better today all said and done? Take care of yourself xxx
