Wedding Forum - How to keep it secret?...

I'm hopefully putting deposit down on ' the dress' this Friday but don't want anyone knowing what the dress is like ( except my mum and moh as they will be with me) so my question is how do I tell people I'm not saying without them feeling offended?? Esp the In laws as I know they'll hate the fact they don't know n will moan about me keeping it a secret x

The only people who know what my dress is like is my step mum who came with me and a friend who saw dress by accident lol

When in laws and others ask I just say I want it to be surprise until the day, once I have said that everyone has been fine :) my mil did try asking questions about other stuff related to dress like veil and I just smiled and said I want to see everyone's reaction when they see me all ready on the big rather than half ready before then lol

Just say you want to wait until day to show everyone x

My in laws will ask as they seem to ask about price of everything ( they think they r only ones who have money issues!!) and like to judge! And there is no way I want them or anyone knowing price of my dress til at least afterwards lol. Just guna have to make sure I dont get caught up talking about it lol although I know explaining it does it no justice lol. X

Just say it's a surprise and you're not telling anyone. I got annoyed with some people asking me and making out they had a right to know. I just made it clear I didn't want anyone knowing until they see me walking down the aisle.

Just tell them you don't want anyone knowing what it is like until the day. I hsowed a few people, but then got annoyed as someone showed it to someone else without asking me, it was not even on fbook, it was via a text message.

Surely no one should even expect to be told what your dress is like?! Most people like to keep it a surprise for the day - surely they will understand that x

It's just so rude! People amaze me sometimes!

I had a fair few friends that said they did not want to see my dress until I walked in.

Most people were totally respectful it was just her. It's sad people can't stop themselves.

Thankfully nobody has asked to see mine yet as I think they realise it is supposed to be a secret. If anybody does ask I think I would say what claire said above, that it the best way to tell people and it doesn't sound rude :) x

when it comes to he price just say that you can't believe that you found your dream dress at the price you did. You just weren't expecting to pay THAT much for your wedding dress and say nothing more. they won't know if you paid over the odds or if you got a bargain basement discount but it will shut them up and you get to answer the question without being rude xx

Lol. I wouldn't show anyone, not even those not invited. Only the VIPs knew, my mum, sister and best mate and the shop owner. My dad saw a picture.