i bought my dress back in January and absolutely loved it...... but the closer im getting to my big day i'm not too sure about it and dont know what to do............ its Black which is what i wanted and a-line which is again what i wanted (cant post any pics cos h2b uses same laptop)......... is it normal to feel this way.......... :(
CommentAuthorBee
is there a reason you feel this way, have you seen another that you prefer. i think its prob nerves and excitment as your big day draws near. you will be beautiful in your dress and im sure its lovely xxx
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Perhaps take it in to your local bridal shop and erm add some sparklies to it maybe??
If your not sure its the ONE babe id look around for another one, try selling this one to recoup your losses on ebay maybe?
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CommentAuthordoangels74
i added sparkles to it as it wasnt quite what i wanted when i bought it but knew as im on a tight budget that it was the closest i was going to get........ i do still like it just not too sure i love it and oh i dont know maybe it is just a nerves thing..........
CommentAuthorShellster90
Like you say when you talk about your dress ..it's what you wanted. :) So maybe like Bee says it's just the excitment and nerves making sure your day will be perfect. I'm sure it looks gorgeous huni!! :) xx
i hope so ..... think im going to go try all the get up on at my mums later this afternoon now my tiara and other bits have turned up........ x
CommentAuthorBee
exactly, when you have it all on together you will wonder why you even felt this way. x
CommentAuthordoangels74
i hope so ...... :-( x
CommentAuthorbillybob
I'm worrying about this too! I bought my dress in january because I loved it and did not want to take it off, I dont get to see it again till august and I'm worried I wont love it anymore. I think it is just a nerves thing. Good luck this afternoon I'm sure you'll feel amazing in it when you have everything on with it.
CommentAuthordoangels74
i hope so ....... and i'm sure you will love yours when you get to see it in August!!
CommentAuthorMrswright
I am in the same boat sweetie i don't think i like mine either i am going to have to visit it and try it on with all my accesories when i tried it i thought it was nice but i didn't get mushy this is the one feelings maybe it isn't
CommentAuthorHelen
Try it on with your tiara and jewellery, maybe have your hair done the way u want it for the wedding as well and try the whole lot on, like Bee said you will wonder why you felt that way x
CommentAuthormrs linda greer 21/8
i was the same then my bridesmaid said when i get all the alts done ill be happier and she told me i look lovely in it and when you get all the other bits tiara make up done hair done etc you will look stunning i think its nerves, but they say when you have your dress DONT look at any others lol but thats very hard when we all have nosey at each others dresses lol x
CommentAuthordoangels74
ok so i tried everything on and ............ still not sure!!! oh dear :-(
CommentAuthorBee
is there anything standing out that you are not sure off?? do what you think is best hun, if you not going to be happy, see if you can change it xx
CommentAuthorCeCe
doangels - ok, if you are still not sure NOW is the time to TRY to make things better
1) do you have the finances to look for another dress...?
Let us know..I am sure we will pitch in to help all we can...remember that well know Auction site, look there for new dress and perhaps selling the not so like dress now...
CommentAuthorkitten
Go hunting for a new dress you will soon know if the dress at home is the one. If not you need an action plan, can the dress be altered so it is right? i looked at another dozen dresses before going back to the one i chose
CommentAuthorkitten
Try preloved.co.uk some real bargains to be had
CommentAuthordoangels74
i'm thinking maybe its the colour...... you know 'cos not many people wear black to get married in .......... maybe i should look round and see if anything else catches my eye........ finances are tight but i'd rather wear something i am 100% happy in than be making do!!! and you never know i might actually fall back in love with this dress while i am looking at others!!!
i'll keep ya all posted!!
Cheers for the input just wish i could post a pic without h2b seeing it!!
CommentAuthorCarolanneJune
aww maybe its just nerves x
CommentAuthordoangels74
just had a thought.......... i'm going to get a couple of my bridesmaids to come and try their dresses on while i try mine (again) then maybe i'll have a better idea of what the whole effect will be and maybe just maybe i will stop stressing!!! fingers crossed!! x
CommentAuthorRoxii
That sounds like a good idea.. I hope you figure it out x
CommentAuthordoangels74
ok so i had my sister and her daughter come with me to try on their dresses while i tried mine with all accessories and i thinkk the crisis is over......... my dress just needs to be taken in a little bit well when i say a bit what i actually mean is about 4 inches need taking off the top to fit my boobs..... i cant understand how they have shrunk so much but heyho !! Anyway once all the alterations have been completed i think i will feel alot happier!!!
Thanks for putting up with me moaning at you all Sarah x
CommentAuthoralibum
Thats great news, maybe there was a little bit of wedding jitters mixed in your emotions as you havn't got long!;0)xxx
