It's a surprise for him but his best man has told me they are going to Amsterdam, I'm really not that fussed where he goes they leave Friday morning and back Sunday night.
One of my friends has told me I must be nuts to allow him to go there for the weekend.
It's a place he has always wanted to go to but she has filled me now with dread, so please tell me do you think I have anything to 'worry' about.
He's been away on holidays without me before for a week and this friend told me at the time I was crazy I trust my oh 150% I wouldn't be marrying him if I didnt but for some reason she has got to me with her comments :-(
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Think it depends if his friends are bad influences and he can easily be led astray? Amsterdam is a very lax city when it comes to naughtiness behind doors... The police are very strict on the streets, in fact some of the most strict I've seen, but lots of scantily dressed women and obviously lots of sex on public show x
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
What I mean is, I guess it depends what they're planning for him while there x
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CommentAuthorElizabethF49
I had said to best man 'no prossies ' his reply was alan isn't into strippers so no chance of that. I'm not naive enough to think he's going to go to that city and not 'look' lol it's really just a cheap weekend lads away drinks I know he won't go into any of the legal cafes as its really not his thing and if he's not happy with what they have planned he will tell them and leave.
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Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I don't think there's much to worry about then, tbh the few times we've been, we've gone for a look lol and some are stunning, makes you wonder why they're doing it as they look like models... The other thing is the bar called teasers there,it's a little like hooters but the girls let you have tequila off any part of their body ... Maybe you should perhaps mention that one too lol x
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And prostitutes are expensive anyway, we overheard a stag do saying someone on it had paid €40 for 15 mins but couldn't perform under the time pressure lol
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CommentAuthorbarbie86
My OH went there on his; he's also been on lad's holidays to Prague, and will be going to Sofia, Bulgaria, next June for a friend's stag do.
It really did not bother me; all they did was drink and do drugs, and go to like one strip club and a peep show thing. That said, I'm pretty laid back so there wasn't much that was 'off limits'. The only thing that bothered me was the cost; it cost something like £800/900 for just 3 nights and 4 days and that REALLY annoyed me, as that would nearly get us a week all inclusive somewhere like Mexico or Cuba. That was my only issue; I felt it very extravagant for a weekend away.
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Men aren't bothered about the cost of stag dos tho are they.i agree with Barbie as my hubby's was to Berlin and he spent a bomb in comparison to mine in newcastle... A lot of the friends going on it see the stag do as more important than the wedding. Think you need to sit and talk with him on what bothers you so he knows and doesn't claim he didn't know when he gets back if there's something you didn't like.x
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CommentAuthorIrishbride2be
you have 150% trust in your man and thats all that matters, your friend shouldn't of put any of that in your head thats a very unfair and i know whats it like when a seed gets planted and you let it grow and think oh no, but if you trust him then you will have nothing to worry about- just think of how much you can laugh at him when he comes back needing his bed for a week to recover lol xx
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CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Your friend obviously has not trust what so ever in her partner and is expecting all to be the same.
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CommentAuthorFlossie
Don't listen to your friend! If you trust him then that's all you need to know.. You don't need to know all the details about what happens or what could happen while he's there. I think it's awful of your friend to plant that seed of doubt in your mind!
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Relax, your marrying this man, so you must trust him. My oh would lobe to go there but money means it won't happen. I have said to my oh that his stag doo it his and can doo anything provided he uses protection, just don't tell me about it. But he had said to me that he's not going to because the only person he wants to be with. Cute aye
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
Ignore her! If you trust him enough to marry him then you should continue to trust him on his stag do.
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CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Thanks everyone, I'm just going to ignore her comments she has made a few comments about various things. Oh knows his boundaries and what I will not accept..
I feel alot better about things and hope he has a good weekend x
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think she probably just wants to rattle you x
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