H2B has made no arrangements to go on a stag do. His brother and his son are best men, and ages ago I texted his brother to say could you sort out a night for him to go out as he is saying he will not have one as cannot afford it. He replied saying yeah that's cool and they were going to be sorting it out later, so it sounded like they had already started sorting one out.
Anyhoo, a friend said to me on Sunday, did he want to spend the night in Southamtpon with our friends from there. I said to him oh do you and Mike want to go over there for a few drinks with them, to which he said Mike will be away then. I said to him well you can still go without him, his reply nah I'm working!
Now I swear to goodness that he thinks I am going to organise it as I have organised everything else for the wedding. No way am I doing that as well. If he wants one he needs to get off his rear end and ask peeps if they want to pop out. I said to him even if he goes out into our local town just for a few drinks with some people at least he can say he has gone out. I know it will be afterwards, well at least you had hen night!!!! Problem with him I think is that he went to a couple of stag nights in Newquay for the whole weekend and I think that is what he expects it should be!
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorsusan1990
we asked our best man (ohs brother) to organsie his stag doo......i ended up doing it all! booked a table at a restaurant then booked a taxi to collect them and take them all to blackpool and ordered all there personalised shirts, collected money from everyone, gave them all there tops when they arrived and even had to order the novelty bits for him aswel..in the end i wish i hadnt bothered as they ended up drinking to much before they went out and comming home early!
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Oh grrr how annoying for you, going to all that trouble!
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorBethS11
my h2b isn't having one, and i didn't have a hen night either. as old as this sounds, we've lived together for 3 year now so it's not as though they'd be our ''last nights of freedom'', and we're not big drinkers either, so wouldn't have fancied a night out on the town! we were going to have something like boys vs girls paintball, but just never got round to it. i wouldn't worry, it's entirely up to him, he may just feel the same way we do :) x
CommentAuthorSam
If he wants it and his groomsmen are too lazy to plan it, he should plan it.
Thing is I was happy that I helped with some parts of my hen night but most was done by my moh. I also think, if he wants one then he needs to get in touch with a few friends and go out.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorSamanthaG76
Grr how frustrating! I definately side with you that this is one thing that HE needs to do!! Susan, i can't believe you did all that for your OH! x
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CommentAuthorLaura JaneW
My hen night has been booked for ages and my H2B had his stag plans before i did,and his best men still havent sorted it out yet. Its a real shame as they know where they want to go,but one of his best men is too busy,the other just blo*dy lazy! Hes going to have to sort it himself if he wants to go anywhere!
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Well he is now going to have one next weekend which is good as I am having a mini hen do at home with the girls and friends who could out make the last one. I have actually gone out of my way and ordered some stuff for him to wear, a t shirt, ball and chain and a blow up doll. I nearly got him a groom to be sash but thought that was a bit too girly.
