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    • Sarah D
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    Well I am meant to be attending my mums hen night tomorrow, were not really on speaking terms still and I feel it will be awkward xx

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    • JennK
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    Morning all, happy Friday!

    MIL's birthday tomorrow so taking her out for tea and cake in town. Not really got much else planned but hoping I can get out in the garden.

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    • CommentAuthorJoannaS
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    morning all

    TGIF!!!

    We are off out tomorrow night with the family for a meal and tonight I'm off out with the girls from work
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    • Sarah D
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    Enjoy your weekends Jenn and Joanna

    I am so glad that's its Friday its my half day so out of here at 1pm! xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Morning ladies, so glad it's Friday! This week has felt so long even though it's only been 4 days! xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Oh has another weekend off this weekend so on Sunday we are going to Preston to look for a new motorbike for him then we are going to have a drive to Blackpool, thinking of going to the fair but not sure yet as it's £46 for both of us! xx

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    • Emily17
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    Morning, This morning has been non stop already! and monitor playing up so just working off laptop. think its going to be one of those days!

    Had my storage bags arrive yesterday so I can carry on sorting everything to go in the loft. If we don't get our own house soon I can see us needing to get a storage unit!

    Hoping to have a lie in tomorrow as really tired. then knitting and seeing a friends band in the evening. think its Jazz but should be good fun whatever it is.

    no plans for sunday yet other than sorting everything out and hopefully getting a lot of knitting done

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    • Sarah D
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    I have been busy this morning but the time isn't moving as fast as I would like! xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    There is nothing to do here today so I am bored already! xx

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    • Sarah D
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    Im the same now Emma sitting doing nothing now think the time will drag until 1pm! xx

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Morning again.

    Good to be back at bootcamp even if we did more talking than anything else.

    I'm guessing hubby will be working tomorrow anyway so will be doing housework on my own, catch up on laundry so hopefully a good day.

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Morning all, busy day so far. Got LO to school a little late but not much,came home got dog went to mums got dog and been I woods playing with them 2 tired pooches, now home to start on house work and laundry.
    Got OH 2 girls later for the weekend sounds horrible but I dread them coming over lately (well oldest anyway) as we never know what attitude she's going to give us. I'll be in the woods with dog if it's a bad attitude,lol

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    • Glitterfairy
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    How old is she Kelly?? Hubby's eldest has just turned 17 and she has had an attitude for years. Everything has to be to her liking, go her way, if not she is not happy, she complained the whole day of the wedding she wanted the MOH's dress and not the one she wore. Just found out as well that my daughter's friend who is going out with step son, hates going over to his house as when she is there, step daughter gives her the evil looks all the time. My daughter said it is probs because she has a good relationship with me, and her reply was well I am not ruining my relationship with your mum just to make her happy. I am unsure whether to mention it to hubby or not to have words as when she starts going out to the pub and doing it there, living in hte place she lives in, she will most likely find a fist hitting her face!

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    • Emily17
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    That does not sound like a fun house to be in.. either of them

    I would mention it to him GF. he doesn't need to then have words with anyone if its not necessary a the moment but at least he knows the situation?

    Kelly... build yourself a den in there :)

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    • Pinky Pie
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    She's just turned 11 GF and her attitude stinks,she talks to her dad like s**t and I hate it as if I say anything about it we end up arguing, her mum can do no wrong . She throws it in his face when he has to work some Saturday's when he has them that he thinks more of work than her,but it's like he says who pays for her holidays abroad,Xmas presents birthday presents maintainance. HIM . but she says her mum does all that. She's already been in trouble with police for stealing and Internet bullying( which happened at our house,I went mad) like your hubby's eldest looks could kill. Her mum doesn't help either, her attitude to my OH is if they need something and you don't pay you don't see them. That's what maintainance is for. My kids haven't had a holiday in the 5 yrs we have been together yet he's paid for them to go abroad 3 yrs in a row. I've said no more - my kids deserve a holiday aswell.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Thing is with hubby's ex, she has let them have whatever they want, lets them get away with whatever they can do, all they have to do is sneeze and hey presto, day off school. Their attendance has been awful, but hubby won't ever say anything to them as he feels they won't talk to him anymore if he does. He lets them get away with murder as well, but he won't let mine do the same. I've mentioned it to him loads of time that he tells mine off for doing something yet they see him letting his get away with it. I just let step daughter get on with it now. She never stays over as she says she is too old to share a room with my 14 year old daughter, yet not too old to share a room with her 15 year old brother. What goes around comes around, and when she starts going out in the big world she will realise she cannot prance around like she does, she walks quite provacatively swinging her hair around as if to say hey look at me, I am gorgeous, she will get thumped one day at the pub especially when she gives the looks.

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    • Pinky Pie
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    I think we are living in the same house GF. As my OH is exactly the same with my kids I think he's learning now that he needs to listen to me more as I told him this would happen yrs ago and hey presto look at it all now. She's just gone up to secondary school and I've told him she's going to get a bashing and he gave me an evil look then agreed and said its what she needs to push her down a peg or too. We have also fell out big time over their weight as they're fed on crap all the time at home as their mums too lazy to cook decent meals so gets take always all the time...oldest is in same size clothes as me and youngest is 7 and in 13/14 yrs,I just don't feel it's right........ Tell me if I'm wrong!!

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    • Glitterfairy
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    That is pure neglect on her half there. Step daughter is slim, and beautiful and knows it. Step son is a tad chubby, not much though, but when you look at him and then mine you can see it as mine are all like their Dad and very slim with not an ounce of fat on them. My hubby has realised on some occassions he should have listened to me, but normally by then it is too late. When I told him he needed to have words with step son about snogging his gf in front of everything and sprawling all over the sofa so nobody could sit down, he shrugged it off until I told him that if he did not say something then his gf's dad would be and it won't be so nice as they are not allowed to act like that in her house, so I feel that as she is best friends with my daughter, I need to respect that as well, plus it is not nice sitting watching tv with them snogging each other's faces off. Hubby realised at that point he needed to mention something before another Dad had a go at his son. And quite rightly so.

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Yh it is so say he's said to her about it, but she's not doing nothing about it,all my girls are skinny like I was at their age but they're healthy, I couldn't sit there and watch them snogging I couldn't hold my tongue,lol I'd say something.
    We argue more over his oldest and her ways than anything else tbh. My 12 yr old does give him attitude but not often and I punish her for it but his oldest will literally scream and shout in his face and she just gets told to shut her mouth that's it. She always got to have the last word.... We are meant to be paying for a school trip thing for her but I've told OH that if her attitude doesn't change its not happening and he agreed and told her mum the same, mums attitude towards that was if you don't I'll pay for it then,but tells OH she can't afford this n that, she doesn't even get out the car or talk to me if I'm home to get kids when they come if OH isn't home. Damn rude.

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    • DanielleS0709
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    Oh gosh Soubds like tough work GF and Kelly!!

    I'm up already and was working last night! Oh well off now for 4 nights. Taking some annual leave as it's LO birthday on Monday. OH is taking Monday off too so will be lovely to have some family time.

    Tomorrow we are having a party for LO at soft play. Have 4 kids that can't go now but because I booked a certain party area I have to pay for then anyway bit peeved at that. If it's nice on Sunday we are going to go to the park and take LO on the Thomas train. Then on Monday we are taking him to the zoo! Can't wait

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Sounds like a great weekend planned for LO Danielle, enjoy. I intend to buy a couple of bottle of wine to help me see weekend thru,lol xx

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    • DanielleS0709
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    Yes Kelly for tomorrow night in thinking wine, Chinese, xfact0r. Will prob need it after the party lol

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Ha ha good thinking Danielle between me you and GF we will need it xx

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Afternoon....been to t3sc0 and got some salad bits for later. Bought myself a new top as sil and I are going in to town for a couple of hours tomorrow night whilst OH has LO

    Not got much else planned for the weekend

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    • Sarah D
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    Seriously ladies you have got it tough but i can relate! I have issues with h2b son's mum! shes a complete head case its a joke weve now had to take it court and not seen stepson for 8 months, but weve has so many problems when we did see him its never ending xx

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Hope your LO has a lovely day tomorrow Danielle x

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    • Pinky Pie
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    It is hard Sarah, I want to say so much but bite my tongue all the time,there are times I've had to walk away from OH daughter as I'd end up smacking her myself,even my 12 yr old says the same. She always comes with me to sort horse out and we take longer there so we aren't there listening to her, don't get me wrong she's not always like it just 90% of the time. She listens to private conversations and runs home to tell mum which we have now come wise to it so are cautious with what we say now in front of her.

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    • Sarah D
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    Its so blooming draining! We've had so many problems with her but its all down to her jealousy and she needs to think of her son first rather than herself! Im dreading if stepson acts like this when hes older but we will know its because of her!

    like you I am only trying to do the best and luckily H2B and I are on the same page, as its her that's the problem and not stepson.

    But I totally feel for you and your children when shes playing up, no need for it! xx

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    • Pinky Pie
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    No there is no need for it, I don't know if it's jealousy or not but it needs to stop what ever it is,I've said to OH she's going to be pregnant or have an asbo by 14 and she won't be coming into the house if she is,harsh I no but that's the way she is and mum doesn't help matters.and again he agreed. He said we have other kids to help walk the right paths if she wants to go the wrong way that's up to her as she doesn't listen to us.
    I think that's the reason OH doesn't want them at the daytime of the wedding only the evening.

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    • Sarah D
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    Yeah I would be the exact same as you, don't want your kids thinking that's acceptable.

    I really hope after court again we have something solid and then we can let stepson see we are a stable unit and he can enjoy spending time with us again, she on the other hand fills his head with nonsense about us!

    Well im off for the day ladies have lovely weekends all maybe be back later once I have the weekly shop out the way xx

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Fingers crossed for you both Sarah and for LO to have something solid in place to see his dad. Jealousy is a very hard thing to deal with. Enjoy your day xx

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    LO and I have just got on the settee wrapped under a quilt ready to watch h0m3

    Perfect afternoon snuggled with my boy. Shame the OH is still at work so can't join us

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Awww fab film MMW2B I cried,enjoy xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    That sounds lovely Mrs M! Been wanting to see that film xx

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    • Elinor Claire
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    Emily I've had the same thing with Royal Mail. Sometimes I think they don't bother to knock or ring the doorbell, there was a time when they put a card through the door at 7:30 when I was in the kitchen, not far from the front door. There was no way they knocked.

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Aww film was good now LO running round with no nappy on and the potty is out

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    • Elinor Claire
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    Yes things have come together well this year. The only thing I'm disappointed about is that I've made no further progress in developing a music career. I've always wanted to be a professional flautist, but while I have done some paid work it's nowhere near enough to live on. Some of the chamber things that I do just involve splitting the ticket money between us. It may be that maternity leave will give me the chance to do a bit more, but unfortunately it does involve spending money that I can't spare. I'd love to do a proper CD but it will cost far too much.

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    • Emily17
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    Its ridiculous. I called up B0dy Sh0p when I got home and they were very complacent about it.. said oo it happens a lot with R0y@l M@i1.. I was quite shocked.
    They are resending it to me free of charge so at least I don't have to pay postage.


    I have FINALLY finished my monthly reports :D
    at this time on a Friday there's no point me stating my weekly ones. may as well just do 2 weeks on Monday

    Oooo bring on the weekend!!! What does everyone have planned?

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    • Emily17
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    Why not go to a local wedding fair. Sure some people would like it during arrival drinks etc?

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    • Elinor Claire
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    I have looked into wedding fairs but it costs a fortune to exhibit. I have advertised in wedding shops though and contacted wedding venues.

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    • Elinor Claire
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    I'm so bored this afternoon. This morning I stayed in for the gas engineer (we have a cooker finally!) and got some gardening done, but I'm really not in a work frame of mind now. Roll on 4:30. The parents in law are visiting so that will be really nice.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    So hungry and still 20 mins until I can leave work! Didn't feel like any lunch but regretting it now!

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    We've just had salad and chicken goujons for tea. Was yummy.

    OH finished work then mowed the grass as it was getting long. He's got to go to work in the morning for an hour or two :(

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    • Sarah D
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    Evening ladies I've just opened a bottle of wine for a well deserved glass after a week of work xx

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    • InDreamland
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    Hi ladies!

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    • InDreamland
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    Not been around much this week, been so busy and stressed as usual.

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Just finished chicken Kiev and salad for tea, my youngest ate 3 big kievs all to herself lil piggy,not that I'm complaining as she'd live on toast if she could.
    Going to take dog for a long walk in min tire us both out. Forgot to buy wine so will have to raid cupboard to see what goodies I got drink wise.
    Glad you enjoyed film MMW2B x

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    • InDreamland
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    TGIF! I'll regret it Monday but decided this afternoon not working late.

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    • Pinky Pie
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    Evening IDL x

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    • InDreamland
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    That's a lot of kievs.

    We're going for an Indian later. Just waiting for hubby to get back from the gym.

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