Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
I need to start bedding mine in too x
Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
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well, my landlord has replied...
'Admittedly its somewhat of a grey area... The law states betterment where you would at least be responsible for a proportion of the costs based on the btah being in perfect working order before. I appreciate it was an accident however i am disappointed you dont feel it would be the right thing to accept responsibilty for the damage thats been caused. Do you have accidental damage on your insurance??'
Another text followed with:
'If your insurance isnt an option then ill set about getting the job arranged... no point delaying. Wouldnt want any water damage to compound the problem. Thanks'
What a d1c!....
My reply after consulting our export manager who is a landlord himself is going to be:
'Thanks, i appreciate yourcomments however, the nature of the damage is genuine wear and tear therefore the landlords responsibility to replace. I too would appreciate this to be completed as soon as possible as i agree with you, the last thing we want is any water damage'.
Im so upset
I could do without this!!!!
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorFlossie
Pain in the backside when landlords are difficult about things like this! If you are a landlord you need to be prepared for things like this happening, instead of ducking and diving it and being awkward about the whole thing he should just be grateful it's not a bigger problem that would set him back even more!
It's not a "grey" area, it clearly states in your tenancy agreement that he is responsible.
Ive sent my reply and he has not come back to me yet...... Only time will tell lol
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorFlossie
This is what makes me wish we had our own house! Yeah it would be a pain when things go wrong and the costs associated with that but at least you'd be able to just crack on with it yourself instead of going through all this nonsense!!
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
He has just replied..... 'Leave it with me.....'
Im not responding. i will do just that.
thank you ladies for guiding me through this, im an emotional wreck at the moment and your help is sooooo appreciated
xx
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorFlossie
At least he is doing something about it and acknowledging there is a problem that needs sorting xx
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorMagpieBride
Gosh, Emma; that's a heck of a squirmy landlord you've got there! ((hugs)) if you want 'em - I learned from my time in student lets just how much landlords will try and wriggle their way out of what is actually their legal responsibility... ~sigh~
Man, all this shoe talk makes me want to go looking for some nice medieval-style boots to go with my dress - on which I'm just waiting for the woman I want to get it from to come back off holiday so I can go down to her studio to try on some samples and go over ideas (and find out if I can afford what I'd love!)...
Had a laugh with one of my work colleagues over the weekend about how he might end up doing some of the catering for our wedding - he's the in-house chef for where J and I both work, and also knows the head chef at our venue! Can't ask for a better reference for who's to do our food, can we, lol!
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
That sounds like a plan Magpie...... I've had my eye on those shoes since day 1 but you know what it's like, should I shouldn't I & I shouldn't have dos money is tight at the mo but, hey, I did it anyway and I'll deal with my money issues later lol.....
I've not heard anything more from the landlord but I'm not sure that's a good or bad thing!!! Oh well!!
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorKatieH
Love your shoes Emma. Can't believe how your landlord is behaving x
Met in 2007
Started dating in 2009
Got engaged in 2014
Became Mrs Holme 11.06.16
CommentAuthorMagpieBride
Yep, that's how we've gone about getting the things we absolutely do not want to compromise on for the wedding - we're only planning on doing this the once, we're doing it now rather than wishing we had 10, 20, 30 years down the line, we can do about 75%+ of the decoration ourselves, and we can always try and beg some extra shifts at work to pay it off after... actually, that's kind of how J got these new shifts he's on at the mo!
Landlord-wise, I'm sure he'll be in touch when he's on the road to getting it sorted; if not, maybe check up in a few weeks.
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
I'm in that mindset magpie.... I'm only doing it once and so we want what we want... We aren't really doing anything DIY, we just don't have time so unfortunately (I think) our budget is quite large however, it's doable on OHs wage.....
We keep getting set backs of late but we WILL do it lol
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
To be completely honest, as long as I marry my OH, it could be in a shed for all I care lol xx
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorMagpieBride
Yep! I think it's the perfect "wedding mind" to be in - no matter what, where or when, as long as you're marrying the one you love, it will be amazing!
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Shoes are gorgeous Emma! I wouldn't worry much more about the bath as he's said he will do it. He was just chancing his arm
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Thanks Danielle......
For now, we have done what we can wedding wise so it's time to sit back, save, save and save.....
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Same here emmilou although I'd like to get rings soon. The saving is hard part. We try to put so much away each month but we have put away very little this month with new car
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Yeah, the rings are the next thing on our list to purchase so thats £1500 of our budget..... Saving isnt going as well as expected as things just keep setting us back but we are keeping our fingers crossed for a big job in September where OH will earn silly money and so we could potentially pay the wedding off in full in 4 months!!!
As i say though, fingers crossed it pulls off. The luck im having at the moment, isnt the best
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorFlossie
Saving is definitely the hardest part! We tried to get big things sorted ASAP and got our rings back in January which was 17 months before the wedding, but one huge weight off our shoulders and one less thing to worry about nearer the time. We are definitely well on track but I always worry something is going to creep up and blow everything out of the water. Keen to save more than we actually need which I think we should do.
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
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Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
thankyou indreamland
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
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Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
My shoes....Again lol
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They even have a blue stone underneath so that's the something blue covered xx
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorKirstyR386
Love the shoes Emmilou. I hope everything gets sorted with the landlord asap. X
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Thank you...... X
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
oooh i love those shoes emmilou x
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Thank you.... I used to go to school with an Adam Wilson. Have you always lived Lincolnshire way??
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
yeah we both have always been nr bourne, my adam grew up in grimsthorpe
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Not sure where that is but it's not Mansfield lol....
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
no nowhere near mansfield haha
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorKateD0
when did everyone buy there wedding rings? I have the money to buy my OH so would like to get it ASAP but don't want it to be to early. xx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
We don't have ours yet but if we had the money we would x
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
i haven't got mine yet but i would be looking if i had the money to!!
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorKateD0
I'm thinking for both it will be about £800 so thinking it will be another big thing to get ticked off the list. just need to persuade my OH that it's a good idea. x
CommentAuthorMagpieBride
We paid the deposit on ours back in Feb, expect to hear back from the jeweller around Sept/Oct to say they're in (we're having a majorly custom design, plus internal inscription), gonna cost us just over £1000 total - and we're not getting married til next June, but for us they were one of the most important things along with getting the venue, photo/video, stuff like that.
If you have somewhere safe to store them, and can afford to get them now, then I would say do it - if only for peace of mind.
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Wedding rings is next on my list. We will just be putting a deposit down tho then paying them off. Will be getting jeweller to hang on to them until nearer the time. I just need to decide if I want plain or diamond!
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
We want his and hers gold rings with a pattern on. Don't think we want plain bands x
Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
CommentAuthorKateD0
my OH wants a white gold and yellow gold band and i want a diamond cross over. iv already tried it on and fell in love with it. x
CommentAuthorGemmaS8204
We ordered ours 2 weeks ago and are awaiting a phone call to say we can pick them up...sooo excited! X
CommentAuthorFlossie
We picked our rings and paid for them in full back in January this year, we get married next June. We spent about £800 in total so for us it was a massive weight off our shoulders.
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
definitely think i need to think about the rings haha, you guys are all worrying me about getting them sorted
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
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OH got his in April and I got mine in May and we get married next May, it is a big chunk of money that we just wanted out of the way and we managed to get some money off them :) x
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorPaigeEmily
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think ill get saving lol
Mr and Mrs Wilson to be
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
OH has just received his tax back that we have been waiting for..... £1000 in total so paying £500 off the photographer and £500 off the venue!! for once, some good news xx
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
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That's really good news Emma! Will be a huge chunk sorted out! x
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorFlossie
Nice!!
Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
Just ordered OH some 'so you don't get cold feet' socks and 'property of' boxers to go in his groom bag :) x
Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
Yeah... Its a good amount to get get sorted. OH is now putting between £300 & £500 a week away now too so hopefully get the numbers down x
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
