Thanks Mrs K, it sucks but we would rather book somewhere we know and love than worry tbh. I cried when we decided to do it last night so it must mean a lot as I never cry! Hey ho, keep everything crossed :)
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorbeximo86
Well ladies I've (finally) ordered my dress! It's due in to store around the end of March going off the books estimated delivery times :D Was very impressed with myself when I got measured, I've lost another 3/4 of an inch from bust and hips and 3 inches off my waist! Started back on classes as well, starting Aqua on Friday evening and looking forward to it!
Other than that, a lot of the wedding stuff has taken a back seat due to Christmas, but soon be back on the wedding-train and stressing come new year that it'll be here before we know it!
CommentAuthorCatherineR
That's great! It's such a nice feeling when you've lost weight :) any pics for us?!
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorsALLY
Yay my sister has just rang me to say shes ordered my wedding shoes so when i visit next weekend i can have them..all tho the company only had size 7 1/2 (im normally an 8) so fingers crossed they fit. then i can pick up my dress and take it to the seamstress. i cant wait
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Well I've added a photo booth on for evening entertainment. I wasn't going to have anything like that but after seeing how well they go down and the fact my photographer can add it on to my package so cheaply I've gone for it
STILL have no idea about what I'm doing dress wise and I now getting stressed about it x
Hmmm, what about looking at alternative options like tea lengths or something if the 'norm' isn't impressing you? Try going round the wedding fairs again? They are all starting up again now so you could catch the new collections! x
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
I still haven't chosen a dress either thefuture:Mrs_Hurren, I went to one shop & tried on lots of huge princess dresses & have decided that's not for me. Really wanted to have ordered my dress before xmas but there hasn't been a day that everyone has been able to attend, so it will have to wait until after xmas. If we still all cant make a certain date I'll have to just go with my mum, hopefully she can give me more constructive advise this time. In the last shop she just said every dress was amazing & the one lol, not helpful at all!!
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
My problem is that I worry too much about stupid little things, when I try dresses on im like have i got back fat, bum looks big, too revealing, hips look odd. Im so critical of myself even though my friends have been amazing and gave me honest opinions. Ive just booked to go back to the place I went to in Oct to try more dresses and the 2 faves from that day. this time ill have my moh,bridesmaid and future mil with me. So hopefully by the end of that day ill have ordered my dress.
CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
Snap!! you sound exactly like me lol, doesn't help that I never wear dresses either (I live in jeans) so I have no idea what shape dresses suit me. Have the shops been funny with you about leaving it late? I went in october & they were pushing me to pick quickly otherwise it might not come in time!!
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I live in jeans too lol!
Yes a few places have been quite sharp but the place I'm going to in jan have said it gives me plenty of time to get a dress and will allow plenty of alteration time if needs be.
CommentAuthorsALLY
My shoes need wearing in a little but they are perfect. I can't wait for January its going to be wedpding planning central... Starting with posting invites I can't wait...
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I really need to think about shoes soon. I'm going to need a wedge shoe. Can't do heels. Just don't know where to look.
CommentAuthorJennK
I thought shoes were going to be difficult, but I found two pairs in the first shop I walked into. It was very surreal!
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
I want to get she's soon know exactly what I want just don't want to pay £70 for them. Hopefully they will reduce a lot in sales
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I paid £95 for my shoes, only a bit off the retail price but I loved them and thought well it's the only time soon I'll be able to spend that much on shoes
CommentAuthorCatherineR
WE GET MARRIED THIS YEAR LADIES!!!! I hope you are all celebrating in style :) x
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorJennK
Woo hoo!
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Woohoo :-D
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I can't wait!!!
CommentAuthorsALLY
Its going to be an exciting year of planning. i cant wait. my wedding ring should be here next week, the venue sent my invites out 2 days ago which i am alittle anoyed about as i asked for them to be posted on 5th january. i am being swampd with replies and confusion as half the invites didnt have the date printed on them..i hadnt noticed thank god for facebook. i sent round a quick message so hopefully thats sorted now. ill have to go back to my list to see whats next for me to do
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Our invites are being sent in Feb, we've realised we forgot to add a couple of points on them, such as when it ends and to let us know dietary requirements. So are going to make a little insert with that information on
CommentAuthorCatherineR
It suddenly feels very real... Invites in 3 months, dresses next month and April and I guess at some point we will have to sort bridesmaids dresses although we can't do that until our MOH gives birth next month!! X
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Spent the afternoon discussing invites with the fmil as she is making them for us along with the seating plan x
CommentAuthorJennK
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Booked a band! At last! So excited! They come highly recommended and we are going to see them at a public gig in February. So glad I didn't have to resort to using an agency function band. Yaya!
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
We have decided to ask our male guests to wear fun/funky cufflinks. We have brought some for the best man and will get some for my dad.
Hopefully we will have a better idea about suits by the end of tomorrow to!
Also when we were discussing our budget we worked out we would have about £500 ish spare for emergencies and then I suddenly remembered I hadn't accounted for my bonus I get from a certain mr lewis which should be at least £1000! X
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Suit shopping was a success, oh now knows what he wants and we also tried on wedding rings and are going to go back and order them tomorrow.
Feels like we are getting somewhere now x
CommentAuthorCatherineR
Yay! What did you decide on? x
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
There seems to have been a lull on wedding planning for us, which is probably not a bad thing as most things are sorted.... the only thing I'm slightly worried about getting in time now is the bridesmaid dresses, but we still have time.
Need to start focusing on my uni work for Jan, it's a busy month, so get my assessments done, I'm going to see slipknot in a couple of weeks too, hopefully get the bridesmaid dresses ordered in Jan as well.
Then in Feb I'll have a look at what else needs sorting for both uni and the wedding and draw up a timeline of when things need to be done by.
We had some fantastic news on my fiancé's ring though. Some of you may remember he was given his Dad's old ring but it was too big, the lady from sm----ch said that it could not be resized because of the pattern on it, we were all disappointed but started looking at other rings. We took it in to sell, as his mum said it's silly hanging onto it when it's too small for his dad and too big for him or his brothers, she said we could put the money towards a wedding ring for him. Anyway took it in to see what we could get for it and explained the situation and he said he doesn't see why it couldn't be taken down the two sizes it needs. So we've left it with him and he's going to get back to us, but he see's no reason why it can't be done :) makes me feel a lot less guilty about telling them we're not ordering but still want the free gifts as that's two things she failed to mention about his ring (about the fact that his ring could be resized and also she didn't mention that the ring he was looking at getting from them would not be able to be resized)
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Oh has decided on a grey tailed suit, once I have my bridesmaid dresses he is then going to go back and see them about the "fancy" waistcoats that they do.
Our rings are very boring mine is just a plain silver band and oh has a brushed effect band around the center of his x
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I like the brushed effect bands for men, my oh was looking at them when he thought that he couldn't have his dads one resized.
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Yeah shane (oh) said the normal plain ones were a bit shiny and girly lol he tried it in and it looked lovely. X
CommentAuthorSprucey
Ahhhhhhhh 231 days to go and I've not done anything for ages!! Bloody Christmas took over! Feel like I really need to get on it! But don't have the funds to do so for a couple of weeks!
Great friends
24.04.11 got together
27.03.12 my birthday and our engagement day at Thorpe Park!
25.04.13 birth of our baby girl 25.08.15 together4ever
CommentAuthorclair
I know the feeling! I haven't got my bridesmaid dresses yet and really starting to panic! I just don't want to leave it too late.... X
Started going out with my Gorgeous man 7/11/2010
Got engaged on the 21/9/2013
became mrs Thornton on the 2/8/2015
our wedding day was the best day ever :)!
CommentAuthorSprucey
My still to do list... Book in hair & make up, already got the lady ready to go just needs need funds, book in venue dressers & sweetie cart hire, again just need guns, find wedding rings, find bridesmaid dresses an flower girl dress, book in flowers to be made, flowers to dress venue, order suit hire, grooms shoes, find tiara, order invites.. And probably a tonne of other stuff I've forgotten!!
Great friends
24.04.11 got together
27.03.12 my birthday and our engagement day at Thorpe Park!
25.04.13 birth of our baby girl 25.08.15 together4ever
CommentAuthorSprucey
Oh yeah and order the cake!..
Great friends
24.04.11 got together
27.03.12 my birthday and our engagement day at Thorpe Park!
25.04.13 birth of our baby girl 25.08.15 together4ever
CommentAuthorJennK
My job for this evening is to pull together all the details we want on the invites and give them to our invite design/print lady! I'm so excited! I thought we wouldn't have to do this for another few weeks but she has asked for it now! Excited! It is all real!
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorclair
Spruce- I'm so glad I'm not the only one that hasn't go my bridaid dresses :). I have got a appoiment with the florist in Monday so I am feeling better about that. The cake we are getting the 3 tiers from M&$, and my mil is decorating it for us so I don't have to worry about that. I have done a month by month time line to try and get my head around what to do when. It's really helped me :). X
Started going out with my Gorgeous man 7/11/2010
Got engaged on the 21/9/2013
became mrs Thornton on the 2/8/2015
our wedding day was the best day ever :)!
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Get remeasured for my wedding dress 23rd July then it will be here 12 weeks later :)
Going to male the appts to give notice in June (8 weeks before which is norm in Scotland)
Also need to male appt to see cake last to finalise design and flavours.
Hopefully organising kilts on 17th
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
Our rings have arrived at the shop, we cant collect them until the weekend though, so excited!!
Going to check out the blue/green coloured lori lee dress in co@st also for the bridesmaids. It's a bit dearer then I wanted to spend so i'd have to look out for cheap shoes & flowergirl dresses to make up for the over spend.
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I haven't got my bridesmaid dresses yet either, one of them has said about leaving it until March to order... if we do it will be early March otherwise I'll be panicking that they won't be here in time. I'm concerned about not ordering them right now as it is to be honest
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I don't even have my wedding dress chosen yet!! Lol x
CommentAuthorMrsRobson2Be
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I haven't either Mrs hurren, need to get my bum in gear.
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Roll on the 17th! I am going to try a couple of different styles plus the one I loved before and then purchase it x
CommentAuthorSprucey
Clair my bridesmaids are in Wales and bristol and I'm in kent so it's tricky to go in a shopping trip! Lol but we are all going to the London wedding show in February with my mum so hopefully it will cross a few things off the list and if we don't get the dresses there we can at least confirm deffo what we are looking for. There's a shop in the shopping centre where I work that does bridesmaid dresses so I known can get what I want there idiot find it elsewhere and they're fairly cheap do all colours etc. trouble is one bridesmaid is trying for her last baby and the other is slightly larger looking to loose weight so don't want lots of alterations so I think I need something floaty!
Great friends
24.04.11 got together
27.03.12 my birthday and our engagement day at Thorpe Park!
25.04.13 birth of our baby girl 25.08.15 together4ever
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Finally managed to get through to the register office to make an appointment to give notice. Hopefully our work will be ok with us taking the time off to do it as the latest appointment they can give us on any day is 2:45 x
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I want to plan something...
.... what can I organise ladies.
I need to still sort
bridesmaid dresses-but they don't want to order them yet My hair pieces Hairdresser and make-up artist gifts for people know what we're doing for favours but still need to buy and sort them write on invites gift for my fiancé
.... not sure if that's it or if there's some other things
CommentAuthorCatherineR
Hairdresser and make-up definitely!!
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I don't know what to do regarding them.... I don't know why but it's something I've been dragging my feet on :/ I hate talking to hairdressers at the best of times.
Will they want to know what I want straight away or let me book them and decide closer to the time?
CommentAuthorCatherineR
I've never heard of a hairdresser wanting to know a hairstyle before booking. Normally, you book them for your date then have your trial as the whole point of your trial is to discuss and experiment with hairstyles :)
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Agree with Catherine, id book a hairdresser and make up artist sooner than later and go for trials.
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)