My MOH's (I have Maid and Matron of Hons) and BM asked me what sort of thing I would NOT like to do. So I said absalutely no pub crawling, strippers or nightclubs. Just not my thing.
I quite like the idea of rock wall climbing, archery, target shooting, visiting a chocolatier or even just spending a day in a relaxing spa being made a fuss of.
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Engaged 13th June 2013
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My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
I think as long as the organisers know what is not wanted it will be fine :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
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CommentAuthorCatherineR
I'm 24 now ladies and even my stomach churns and fills me with dread at the thought of going to clubs/pubs and having a stripper so don't worry, you're not alone and it's not just the older ones amongst you that hates it! Not that 35 is old, just older than me obviously lol.
Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
Saying about strippers , whilst in Vegas for friends wedding in April the hen and stag do's were out there and the hen did say a number of times no stripper ..... we went to the Chippendales , she enjoyed it as we were all taking the mickey as the other people watching was so funny and bizarre ! I'm not keen on a stripper as never really seen the big deal about them :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
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<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorJennK
We used to joke about being nuns for a hen do, and I have a feeling my chief bridesmaid is going to implement the idea for my hen. Not sure how I feel about this!
If you're not keen just bring it up to her as she may think you really want it :)
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Friends became soul mates :)
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CommentAuthorGemmaR81
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Have just seen this dress what do you think xxx
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CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
Very nice Gemma :) JJS is where I am getting my BMs dresses. They have a good rep too.
Met in Nov 2005
Engaged 13th June 2013
Becomes Mrs Stewart on 10th Aug 2015 Honeymoon in Florida!
My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
CommentAuthorGemmaR81
Thanks Victoria, Have you ordered your BM's dresses yet. I have had a few friends that have ordered from there and they have been perfect. It is chiffon so would still be light and floaty xx
CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
Not ordering yet until next year. They're all larger ladies and losing weight and one especially is doing a bloody good job of it that she is literally half the woman she was! Ordering them now would make them tents when they arrive so gonna wait.
I am however ordering the same design for myself to wear to my works charity ball in Nov so I have an idea of what it's like. I wouldn't make them wear something I wouldn't wear myself. :)
Met in Nov 2005
Engaged 13th June 2013
Becomes Mrs Stewart on 10th Aug 2015 Honeymoon in Florida!
My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Meet up with my girls today, they all got on. We have agreed that once summer is over will meet in Exeter to look at the make up and go and try the style of dresses I like to see if they feel comfortable with them or if they will want a slip under when we make them , one of my BMS are going to have a look at prices at for the Cardiff hen doo then can she who want to come/can afford it, or else can come Plymouth/Torquay hen. Hoping with it being organised nearly a year before more people will be able to budget £10/15 per month to come.
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together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
Lovely dress :)
Went on long walk and went past venue for reception so me and friend went in and all she could say was wow wow wow every room we went in and she got so excited about everything it made me smile so much as I can only imagine what people will think when it's wedding ready :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorleasa
Boudoir went well!
Spent a little more than I hoped but not as much as I feared they'd push for.
Photos in my profile. Not showing much flesh, legs mostly!
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
hello, lovely ladies, Leasa glad it all went well, your more brave than me. Have been looking on Vista Print today at doing my invited on there as fear my original planned ones seem a bit to far out of reach, so have done simple ones with tardis on one side and info on otherside, works out at £33 for the 49 i need, but will also need to include some menus/rsvps for the older generations/technophobes, as for the rest we have a wedsite.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorleasa
Love the wedsites, That's not too bad a price for invites though. We'll have to do the same, some (elder generation) family members expect the traditional stuff like posted invitations. Although I do like to receive them too.
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
Picked up wedding count down plaque today I love it :)
Hoping to arrange more dress shop days over the weekend too :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorleasa
Exciting, have fun!
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
It will be discussed about shopping with step mum and step aunts up in England . It's a bit awkward as my mum passed away a few years ago so if she was a live I wouldn't be doing the dress shop with my step mum but I want to involve her .
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorMattsBride
Hey ladies having a really tough time with the wedding planning lately mainly including bridesmaids and dresses but I can't go into detail just trust me it's a whopper! Also just been stressing a lot lately. Gemma that dress is lovely, and as for hen parties (yet another stress it's so hard to get money out of people!) mines in liverpool in march x
CommentAuthorAprilS61
I had a text from BM last night asking who I would want at my hen, and I just had to say depends on the activities really. Told her I don't want one but if it was something like a stripper I wouldn't want parents there or if it was calm like a spa then everyone could go kinda thing. Have to make a list I think! Was exciting as she asked me out of the blue. We also started designing our invites yesterday :)
Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorleasa
Aqti, sorry to hear things are tough. Maybe take some time out and come back to it. You can always rant and share the drama here.
That's great April! Things coming along nicely.
I've found a cheaper alternative to the jimmy choos, shop only had 1 pair in my size and the right one was a bit tatty as it was on display, so going shopping with moh tomorrow in Central London to look for them (kurt Geiger).
I've got major panda eyes this morning despite using half a bottle of make up remover and washed my face 3 times. That boudoir make up was layered on thick!
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Just booked my florist for the flowers and buttonholes happy days.
Next big thing is the coaches and the guys kilts (H2b has his own and DS needs his to be made but that will be about 3 months before the big day)
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
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Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorAprilS61
We have our prototype!
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Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
April they are gorgeous, did you make them yourself?
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorJennK
Ooh now that is a nice blue :)
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
Wow they look lovely April :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
I actually had idea for table plans today by having our fave things so if there 10 tables we each pick our fave show or sport team etc so thinking getting something like a big fishbowl or cage and bottom part having rose heads and then in middle an item of fave item to do with table name . Hope that makes sense as when I described to H2B he looked very confused lol
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorAprilS61
Thank you! Yes we've made them ourselves, just on Word! :) Really pleased with it, looks exactly how we wanted it to. Our colour is actually te colour of the bow, but we could only get the light blue card which actually works nicely or dark blue and it looked odd x
Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
1 year too go, i can't believe it.
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together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
April, does the envelope have slots for the individual cards for RSVP etc and if so where did you get them from?
ps. it looks lovely :D
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Engaged 13th June 2013
Becomes Mrs Stewart on 10th Aug 2015 Honeymoon in Florida!
My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
CommentAuthorAprilS61
No we just got the cards and envelopes from the bay. We've had to buy individual envelopes for the RSVPs but they are too big but can't find anything smaller :/
Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
Ive been at a stand still with the wedding planning, ive had so much to do of late the wedding hasn't been at the forefront of my mind. Looked on the calendar today and noticed we go give our notice next week so thats excited me a little. However there is still so much to do and ive jyst realised that we only have 11 more pay days to get it all sorted. We have saved a vast amount of money for the wedding but for some reason im in panic mode. Is anyone else feeling this way or is it just me over reacting
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorleasa
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Don't panic!
I know how you feel though, we just had a week off work and were spending our wedding money like crazy. I got my shoes, and we've booked the bridesmaids in for fittings, I got part of his morning prezzie sorted.
We were supposed to arrange to visit the venue to ask some questions and make a start on invites...neither of those things got done, the time disappeared so quickly.
After spending I started to feel panicked that we won't have enough for everything.
Plus we are going to Cyprus for his cousins wedding in October, could have done without the expense of that, we had to pay for his mum and dad as well as they are on pension and couldn't afford to go. Only for his dad to pipe up after we paid for passports, flights and accommodation for them, that he now doesn't want to go!
I'm furious
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
I'm feeling a bit ahh with wedding at the mo as in apart from venue and cathedral nothing much else has been done :( we have quite a bit on and h2b works long days and commutes so he tired and I don't want to bombard him with wedding stuff all the time . I'm just feeling like my list never gets anything ticked off :(
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
Oh sorry I meant the wallet fold envelope you're sending them out in. Can you post the link on my page where you got them?
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Engaged 13th June 2013
Becomes Mrs Stewart on 10th Aug 2015 Honeymoon in Florida!
My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
CommentAuthorAprilS61
The actual envelope to match? That came with it. Ill post the link on your wall x
Btw Id be furious too Leasa! x
Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorGemmaR81
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What do you think of these? I found the whole suite so thought this would be better xxx
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
Ooo gemma they are nice x
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorGemmaR81
Thank you Amanda, I also have done the RSVP's and the Order of Service, will cost me £95 for the lot xxx
CommentAuthorErinV
We've been trying to sort things today re: photography, flowers, venue dressing etc but have not been able to get hold of people which is frustrating, but we shall get them tomorrow.
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Gemma they are lovely did you do them yourself?
Erin that's frustrating hope tomorrow is more productive
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
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We were thinking about doing our own invites but by the time we got a printer ink etc it would be very expensive, Ive found a woman in the bay who can do 100 invites for £60.00. They are quite simple and we would fold them ourselves and tie the ribbon she really just prints what we want on the card.
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorGemmaR81
Went on to vi$ta and searched for hearts and just edited the wording. That's for 30 save the dates and invites, 50 evening, 50 oos and 30 rsvps xxx
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Im looking for something with thistles on and its proving a tad difficult :(
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorJennK
The band we want are being a nightmare at communication. I guess sometimes I forget people have other things to do except organise my wedding ;)
Our perfect day - 08.08.15 <3
CommentAuthorleasa
Love the invites April and Gemma. Hope you have better luck tomorrow Erin.
These are our invites, From the Bay, works out about £75 for all we need
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Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorleasa
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Pictures came out badly
Met 30th May 2005
Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
Became Mrs K on 30th May 2015
Married my Gorgeous Greek God
CommentAuthorErinV
Ooo Leasa I love your invites - I haven't seen the 3tiered info edges before, me like!
Both me and h2b will try tackling our tasks tomorrow and hope at least one of us has some success but we both have busy days at work and some of them can only be contacted during 9-5. I will sneak out if I have to!
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Lovely invites leesa.
I dont understand why wedding supplier can only be contacted between 9-5pm can you not send an email and they will get back to you during office hours?
After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
CommentAuthorMattsBride
Probably should start my invites :x Feel way behind now haha!