my other half HATES any public affection when family are around, most probably due to his sister eating the face off her other half when in public which we both think is inappropriote. im dreading our 1st kiss as i imagine it will be just a kiss. he is perfectly fine with snogging behing closed doors tho lol. anyone else feel like this?
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
It is an American tradition you don't need to do it if you don't wont. But i would guess a little kiss will feel natural on the day
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CommentAuthoramie23
i would like a kiss, our first kiss as a married couple. i just worry he will be the one pulling away lol
CommentAuthorlillylou
I feel exactly the same, I want the first kiss in the marriage to be an absolute smacaroony :). It is natural to feel a bit awkward in front of family and friends, so just talk to him about it and practice makes perfect ;) x
CommentAuthorCeCe
You just need to indulge in what you fond appropriate and are comfy with..
..and *YUK* to full on slobbery, noises included public snogs...*GETTTTTTTTTTTA ROOOOM*
we will just have to practice lots and lots and lots lol
CommentAuthorclaire1984
good idea :-) practise makes perfect x
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CommentAuthorJilly Bean
Plus practising is lots of fun! ;-)
CommentAuthorvintage lass
I think a little kiss can sometime be just as nice! Plenty of time for tongues afterwards!!!lol xxx
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
I think I will slip the tongue for the first kiss, but only a very small amount, and in a classy way (of course!) x
CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
i agree with amie's H2B; i want a swift acknoledgement as opposed to a full on snog; i feel that would be strange in front of the m&d <3 x
CommentAuthorLittlegerald
for 5 seconds I'm just going to imagine no one is there! xxx
CommentAuthorCeCe
vintage has the right idea...
CommentAuthorClareandBen2010
we are quite affectionate people so we may have a quick snog but we shall see what happens on the day
CommentAuthorxx MrsM2b xx
I want to seal my wedding with the "first kiss as husband and wife" (without the whole tongues bit tho)...lol :D
....sorry ca'ca'ca - your Auntie Char dont really do that! ;0) xx
CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
i should hope not! :P just not a fan of PDA though, sorry, :] <3 x
CommentAuthorFordie
No full on snogging from us either...not even a sneaky slip of the tongue!! I get Iain to show me all the time how he will give me my first kiss as his wife....I just hope when it comes to the real kiss on the day, I don't do what I normally do and say no, that was too this, or not enough that lol!! ;) In reality it will be magical no matter what.....at least I hope!!!! x
CommentAuthorDaffy
I'd duiscuss it with him, ask what he'll be comfortable with x
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CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
i have worried about it but its the other way around for me, my H2B will prob try and eat me lol, which would be mortifing in front of my family a little kiss is fine but thats it
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
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CommentAuthorKimi
Well I dunno what's happening for me not even discussed that yet.
You could do a stage kiss - looks like french kiss but don't use tongue. Or a long small kiss like a peck but on each others lips. OR he's so enamoured by you he swoops you into his arms and goes for it - then you dont have to worry :P
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthoramie23
lol. i will have to investigate the many types of kisses
CommentAuthorroxyvella
hehe i thought i was the only one worried about it ! i think best is a long small kiss ..plenty of time for full on snogging afterwards though i do like the idea of practicing plenty...
CommentAuthorcatch
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l'm not worried, really looking forward to it, l want to seal my marriage with a kiss too, hope l can stop crying long enough, will possibly slebber!! over new husband lol xxxx
CommentAuthorCeCe
..I am more worried about making stupid snorting/squeeky crying noises!
CommentAuthorSuzi
H2B is threatening to pull the most ridiculous face as we go in for the first kiss... I will bloody kill him lmao!!!
Do not disturb... Already disturbed enough!
CommentAuthorCeCe
lol Suzi that is JUST what the Porky Prince does and is likely to do..not a bad idea to break the emotion..?
CommentAuthorSuzi
This is true Cece, I will probably be in floods of tears by that point so a little light (I wanna say refreshment) heartedness could be just what the Registrar ordered lol..!!
Do not disturb... Already disturbed enough!
CommentAuthorKimi
I actually asked H2B about kissing the other night. I said to him how are we kissing on our wedding day? Proper kisses? Stage kiss? Pecks? or OTT???
And he just smothered me in kisses. I think it will be kept simple a bit of a proper kiss but lighter and a the posing peck too. :)
The days are flying by, can't wait :)
CommentAuthoramie23
hadnt thought about the crying - wood make for one wet kiss lol
CommentAuthorKesha
were keeping it clean I think, we will have a long kiss on the lips...no tongues.
CommentAuthormym72
H2B isn't one for full on kissing in public. I definitely think we'll have to discuss because the worst thing would be going in for a big long kiss and he pulls away after a peck. I would feel humiliated in front of everyone. In fact H2B isn't really into the big, full on tongues and all snog really. I think it's me who's more into that. Don't get me wrong - he loves to kiss but not slobber lol.
CommentAuthorMrsB
Not a big fan of public affection either a little kiss I think we'll practise first haha x
CommentAuthorleanky
i hate that aswell it gets on my nerves i think its embarrsing, but a lil kiss will be fine on your wedding day, im just gonna give him a lil peck. lol :) x
CommentAuthorskitty666
pratice pratice pratice!!!
CommentAuthorrainykins
Hadn't given it too much thought over it all, i do know that jay is worried i may end up licking him instead (sad to say he goes for a kiss sometimes and i give him a lick instead, although i have promised i will try NOT to do this on our wedding day)
CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
i want to do the "hollywood kiss" that Carrie and Burger do in Séx and the City..when he swoops and bends her backwards and kisses her lol x
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CommentAuthoramie23
sounds lovely becca, knowing alan he would drop me lol